Well, let me tell ya somethin’ about this “gay rim” thing. I ain’t no expert, mind you, but I hear things, ya know? Folks talk, and you pick up stuff. So, from what I gather, this “rimming” business, it’s about, well, how do I put this politely… It’s about usin’ your mouth on someone’s backside, the “rim” as they call it. Sounds kinda funny, doesn’t it?
Now, I hear tell it’s somethin’ the gays and lesbians do, but seems like other folks are gettin’ into it too. Heard some sayin’ it’s becomin’ more popular, like one of them “trends” you see on the TV. Lord knows what they’ll come up with next. Back in my day, we didn’t talk about such things. But times are changin’, I guess.
What exactly is this “rimming”?
- It’s when someone uses their tongue and mouth on, you know, the other person’s… uh… backside.
- They call it “rimming” ’cause it’s focused on the, well, the “rim” of that area.
- Seems like some folks like doin’ it, and some like havin’ it done to ’em. To each their own, I say.
From what I’ve heard, some of them gay fellas, they like to be the “top” or the “bottom.” Sounds like a quilt to me, but apparently it’s got somethin’ to do with who does what in the bedroom, or wherever they do their… business. And this “rimming” thing, seems like it fits in there somewhere. Some like it, some don’t. Just like some folks like collard greens and some can’t stand ’em.
Now, I’ve heard some worryin’ about whether this “rimming” thing is safe. Folks gettin’ all worked up about catchin’ things. Well, from what I hear, you ain’t likely to catch nothin’ serious from it, but I guess you gotta be careful, just like with anythin’ else. Common sense, really. Wash your hands, don’t go sharin’ toothbrushes, and all that. My mama always said cleanliness is next to godliness, and that applies to everythin’, I reckon.
Is “rimming” just a gay thing?
Seems like it started with the gays and lesbians, but now other folks are tryin’ it out too. Like I said, it’s becomin’ one of them “trends.” I tell ya, these young folks today, they’re always lookin’ for somethin’ new and different. Can’t say I understand it all, but as long as they ain’t hurtin’ nobody, I guess it’s their business.
I also heard tell there’s different ways to do this “rimming.” Some folks are gentle, some are… not so gentle. And some like to do it a lot, and some just a little. It’s like cookin’ a stew, I guess. Everybody’s got their own recipe. And what one person likes, another might not. That’s just life, ain’t it?
And this “top” and “bottom” thing with the gays, it ain’t just about “rimming”. It’s about all sorts of… positions, I guess you’d call ‘em. Sounds complicated to me. Why can’t folks just keep things simple? But then again, I’m just an old woman, what do I know?
Safety and “rimming”
Now, about this safety stuff. I ain’t no doctor, but from what I hear, you ain’t gonna catch the big diseases from “rimming”, like that HIV thing. But still, you gotta be clean, you know? Nobody wants a dirty backside in their face. That just ain’t right. So, keep things clean, and you should be alright. That’s what I say.
So, there you have it. That’s what I know about this “gay rim” thing. Ain’t much, I know, but it’s what I’ve picked up from listenin’ to folks talk. It’s a different world out there now, that’s for sure. Things are changin’, and people are doin’ things we never even dreamed of back in my day. But that’s life, I guess. You just gotta roll with the punches and try not to judge too much. And for goodness sake, wash your hands!
Gay sex positions and preferences
And it ain’t just this “rimming” they’re doing, seems like they got all sorts of positions they like. Heard some talkin’ about “missionary” and all kinds of other names. Good grief, sounds like a bunch of gymnastics to me. Back in my day, things were a lot simpler. But hey, if that’s what they like, who am I to judge? As long as they’re happy and not hurtin’ nobody, I say let ‘em do what they want.
And this whole “fetish” thing I heard about, Lord have mercy! Seems like folks are gettin’ turned on by all sorts of things these days. Feet, leather, who knows what else. It’s a wild world, I tell ya. But again, it ain’t my business what folks do behind closed doors. As long as they ain’t botherin’ me, they can do what they please.
So, that’s the long and short of it, as far as I can tell. This “gay rim” thing is just one part of a whole bunch of stuff that’s goin’ on out there. And while I may not understand it all, I reckon it’s just part of the way the world is changin’. And at my age, I’ve learned that there’s no point in fightin’ change. You just gotta accept it and move on. And maybe keep your ears open, so you can learn a thing or two along the way.
