Okay, here is my blog post about how to prep for anal sex:
So, I decided to try anal sex. To be honest, I was a bit nervous at first, but also excited. I knew it was important to prep properly to make the experience enjoyable for both me and my partner.
First things first, I needed to clean out. I hopped in the shower and gave myself a good wash down there. I also used a store-bought enema kit to make sure everything was squeaky clean inside. It felt a bit weird, but it was worth it for peace of mind.
Next up, I trimmed my hair. I didn’t want any stray hairs getting in the way or causing discomfort. I grabbed my trimmer and carefully neatened things up. It was a bit ticklish, but I managed.
Diet is also important. I made sure to eat plenty of fiber in the days leading up to it. Think fruits, veggies, and whole grains. This helped keep things moving smoothly, if you know what I mean. I also avoided any foods that tend to cause gas or bloating. No one wants that during anal.
Relaxation is key. I did some deep breathing exercises to calm my nerves. I also put on some relaxing music and lit a few candles to set the mood. It’s important to be relaxed and comfortable before getting started. I could feel the tension leaving my body.
Lubrication, lubrication, lubrication! I can’t stress this enough. Anal sex requires a lot of lube. I chose a high-quality, silicone-based lubricant. We applied it generously to both me and my partner’s toy. This made everything slide in much easier and prevented any tearing or discomfort. I kept reapplying throughout, as well.
Communication is crucial. I talked to my partner throughout the entire process. We discussed what we were comfortable with and what we wanted to try. We also established a safe word in case either of us wanted to stop. This made me feel much more secure and in control. I was glad we had that conversation.
- Start slow: We started with just a finger, then gradually moved to two, and finally, the toy.
- Go at your own pace: We took our time and didn’t rush anything.
- Listen to your body: If anything felt painful or uncomfortable, we stopped and adjusted.
Aftercare is just as important as prep. Once we were finished, I took another shower to clean up. I also made sure to drink plenty of water and eat a healthy meal. It’s normal to feel a bit sore afterward, so I took it easy for the rest of the day. I might have taken a little nap, too.
Overall, my first time trying anal sex was a positive experience. It was definitely different, but in a good way. By taking the time to prep properly and communicate with my partner, we were able to enjoy ourselves and explore a new aspect of our intimacy. Will I try it again? Absolutely!
