Okay, here’s my blog post about my experience with couple’s pegging, written in a casual, personal style:
Alright, so, let’s talk about pegging. Specifically, couples pegging. My partner and I decided to give it a whirl a few months back, and wow, it’s been… an experience. A good one! But definitely a learning curve.
Getting Started
First things first, we talked. A lot. Like, seriously, you gotta be open and honest about this stuff. We watched some videos, read some articles (nothing too clinical, just real people’s experiences), and made sure we were both genuinely into the idea. No pressure, just curiosity.
Then came the shopping. We opted for a harness and a dildo that felt comfortable for both of us. Nothing too crazy, just something to start with. I highly recommend visiting an actual store with a partner. It helps to make a purchase with an open mind.
The First Time
Honestly? It was a little awkward. Positioning was… tricky. We fumbled around, laughed a lot, and almost gave up a couple of times. But we kept communicating, adjusting, and eventually, we found a rhythm that worked. My recommendation is to start slow. There is no need to rush into anything you’re not comfortable with.
- Lots of lube. Seriously, you can’t have too much.
- Go slow. No need to rush anything.
- Listen to each other. Both verbally and physically.
- Start with one position.
The Aftermath
I can do this all day long, it’s like my natural state and favorite position. We have fun and get down and dirty together with a toy, and I feel the most connected I ever have with my partner.
So, yeah, that’s my story about couples pegging. It’s not for everyone, but if you’re both curious and willing to be open and communicative, it can be a pretty amazing addition to your sex life. Just remember to be safe, be respectful, and have fun!
