Okay, here’s my attempt at a blog post, following your instructions and example, focusing on the “woman on top” position:

So, the other night, things got a little… adventurous. We decided to mix things up, and I ended up on top. Yeah, the classic “cowgirl,” or whatever you wanna call it.
First, let me tell you, it wasn’t exactly planned. We were just messing around, some heavy petting, you know the drill. And then, things just kinda… shifted. He was lying back, all relaxed, and I just had this urge. I kinda straddled him, hesitant at first. It felt a bit awkward, like, where do I put my hands? My knees?
Getting Started
- I started slow, just kind of rocking back and forth. It felt… different. Being in control like that, you feel a lot more, you know?
- He seemed to like it, which, obviously, helped. His hands were on my hips, guiding me a little.
Then I got a bit bolder. I started moving more, up and down, experimenting with the angle. That’s the thing – you’ve gotta find what works for you, and for him. There’s no one-size-fits-all here.
Finding the Rhythm
It took some adjusting.

- Leaning forward, hands on his chest – that gave me more leverage, more control.
- Sitting more upright – that was… deeper. Definitely a different sensation.
It took time to adjust each other to find the right rhythm.
Honestly, it was pretty damn hot. Seeing his face, hearing him… yeah. And I felt… powerful. In charge. It’s a totally different dynamic than being on the bottom. You set the pace, the depth, everything.
We went at it for a while, switching things up. I tried leaning back, supporting myself with my hands behind me. That was a bit trickier, balance-wise, but it gave him a great view, which he definitely appreciated. Wink!
In the end, we both… well, let’s just say we were both very satisfied. It was intense, connected, and a real change of pace.
Would I do it again? Hell yeah. It’s not just about the physical feeling, it’s about the whole vibe. The control, the connection, seeing your partner’s reactions… It’s a whole different level of intimacy.

My advice try it slowly,and find your own rhythm.