Okay, so, “threesome relationship.” Yeah, I’ve been there, done that. It all started, like most things these days, with a swipe right. Met this amazing woman, Sarah, on a dating app. We hit it off immediately, great chemistry, the whole nine yards. We dated for a few months, really got to know each other, and things were awesome.
Then, one night, we were out at a bar, and we met this guy, Mark. He was just… charming. Funny, good-looking, and there was a definite spark between all three of us. It wasn’t something we’d planned or even talked about, it just kind of… happened.
We ended up going back to my place, and, well, you can guess the rest. It was surprisingly natural. No awkwardness, no weird vibes, just three people enjoying each other’s company. And yeah, it was hot.
The Aftermath
The next morning was interesting. We all kind of woke up, looked at each other, and had that “Okay, what now?” moment. We decided to get breakfast and just… talk. That’s when we really started figuring things out.
- Communication is KEY. Seriously. We talked about EVERYTHING. Our feelings, our boundaries, what we wanted, what we were comfortable with, what we weren’t. It wasn’t always easy, but it was necessary.
- Jealousy is a bitch. It’s gonna happen. It’s human nature. We had to learn to deal with it, talk about it, and reassure each other. Sometimes it was me, sometimes it was Sarah, sometimes it was Mark. No one was immune.
- Setting Boundaries. We set some ground rules. Things like, “No dating other people,” “Always use protection,” and “Regular check-ins to make sure everyone’s still feeling good.” These were crucial for making it work.
- It’s not always about sex. Yeah, the sex was great, but it was also about building a genuine connection with two other people. We went on dates, we watched movies, we just hung out. It was a real relationship, just… multiplied.
The Ups and Downs
It wasn’t always smooth sailing. We had our fights, our disagreements, our moments of doubt. There were times when one of us felt left out, or insecure, or just plain overwhelmed. But we kept talking, kept communicating, and kept working at it.
Ultimately, it didn’t last forever. Mark moved away for work, and it just became too difficult to maintain the relationship long-distance. But we all parted on good terms, with no regrets. I will always remember the experience, the whole time, It was a unique and fulfilling experience. and the whole process that I have been through, and also the things I’ve learned about myself and about relationships in general.
Would I do it again? Maybe. It’s definitely not for everyone, and it takes a lot of work and a lot of emotional maturity. But if the right people came along, and we were all on the same page, I wouldn’t rule it out. It taught me a lot about open communication, honesty, and the different ways love can manifest itself.
