Alright, alright, let’s talk about this… this “sex teen” thing. Don’t go gettin’ all flustered now, it’s just life, ya know? Kids these days, they grow up faster than a corn stalk in July. Back in my day, we didn’t even know what half this stuff was ’til we were hitched!
So, what’s all the fuss about? Well, seems like these young’uns got a lot of questions. “What’s it like?” they ask. “Does it hurt?” And lemme tell ya, it ain’t like in them picture shows, that’s for sure. Life ain’t no movie, and neither is this.
- First off, there’s all this talk about “safe sex.” Well, that just means bein’ careful, like you would be with a hot stove. You don’t wanna get burned, do ya?
- Then there’s the “talk.” You know, the one your mama shoulda had with ya, but maybe she was too busy churnin’ butter or somethin’. It’s about your body, and how it works. Nothin’ to be ashamed of, it’s just the way God made us.
Some folks get all riled up about teenagers and sex. “It’s the end of the world!” they say. But hold your horses, it ain’t always a bad thing. Sometimes, it’s just… well, it’s just life happening. Kids are curious, they wanna learn, and sometimes they learn by doin’. Not sayin’ it’s right, but it ain’t always wrong either.
Now, if some young fella’s pesterin’ ya, makin’ ya uncomfortable, you gotta put your foot down. You tell him “NO”, and you tell him loud. Don’t let nobody push you around. Your body, your rules, that’s what I say. And if he don’t listen, you go tell your mama, or your grandma, or somebody who can help.
Doctors, they know a thing or two about this stuff. They can answer them questions you’re too embarrassed to ask your mama. They’ve seen it all, believe me. And they ain’t gonna judge ya. They just wanna make sure you’re healthy and safe.
There’s all sorts of things to learn about. Puberty, that’s a big one. Your body starts changin’, and it can be scary. But it’s natural, like the seasons turnin’. And there’s this “gender identity” thing they talk about now. Seems like folks are figuring out they ain’t always what they thought they were. Well, I say, to each their own. As long as you ain’t hurtin’ nobody, you do what makes you happy.
And when you’re ready, or think you’re ready, for… well, you know… you gotta be sure. Sure about what you want, sure about who you’re with, and sure about bein’ safe. Don’t rush into nothin’. Life’s long, plenty of time for all that. And talk to someone, someone you trust. Don’t keep it all bottled up inside.
So, that’s the long and short of it. Sex, teenagers, it’s all a part of growin’ up. Just be smart, be safe, and be yourself. And don’t be afraid to ask questions. Nobody knows everything, and there ain’t no shame in learnin’. That’s all this old woman has to say about it. Now go on, get outta here and do somethin’ useful!
Tags: Teen Sex, Safe Sex, Sex Education, Puberty, Relationships, Advice for Teens, Talking about Sex
