Okay, so today I want to share my experience on this “leader train” thing. It’s been a wild ride, so buckle up!

It all started when my boss told me, “Hey, you’re gonna lead this new project.” My first thought? “Uh oh…” I mean, I’ve always been the doer, the guy in the trenches, not really the “leader” type, you know?
So, the first thing I did was, well, panic a little. But then I took a deep breath and started to plan. I listed out everything that needed to be done, like EVERYTHING. From setting up the initial meetings to figuring out the final deliverables.
Then came the team assembly. That was interesting. I had to pick folks with different skills, some tech wizards, some creative geniuses, and some who were just plain good at getting things done. It felt a bit like building a superhero squad, honestly.
- Meeting with stakeholders – Check!
- Defining clear goals – Double-check!
- Creating a timeline that wasn’t totally insane – Triple-check!
We kicked things off with a big meeting. I tried to be all motivational and inspiring, but I probably just ended up rambling. Still, I think I got the main point across: we’re in this together, and we’re gonna make something awesome.
The next few weeks were a blur of activity. We brainstormed, we argued (in a good way, mostly), we coded, we designed, and we tested… and then tested some more. There were late nights, fueled by way too much coffee and pizza. There were moments of frustration, where we hit roadblocks and had to figure out how to get around them.

One of the biggest things I learned was the importance of communication. Seriously. It’s not enough to just tell people what to do. You gotta listen, too. You gotta understand their concerns, their ideas, their frustrations. And you gotta be clear about what you expect, and what the overall goals are.
There were times I felt completely overwhelmed. Like, “What am I even doing?” But then I’d see the team making progress, solving problems, coming up with cool solutions, and it would give me a boost. It’s amazing what a group of people can accomplish when they’re all working towards the same thing.
Finally, after all the hard work, we launched. It wasn’t perfect, of course. There were a few bugs, a few things we could have done better. But you know what? We did it. We actually pulled it off. And the feeling of accomplishment was incredible.
The Takeaway
So, what did I learn from this whole “leader train” experience? A few things:
- Leading isn’t about being the boss; it’s about helping everyone else be their best.
- Communication is KEY. Seriously, can’t stress this enough.
- You’re gonna mess up sometimes. It’s okay. Learn from it and move on.
- Celebrate the wins, big and small. It keeps everyone motivated.
It was tough for sure, and to be honest, this is my own style of leading, and I believe everyone can be a leader, it’s just a train to make it, and a train of the process.
