Okay, so, here’s the deal. I’m gonna lay out my experience… learning some stuff. Yeah, that stuff. Don’t judge. We all gotta start somewhere, right?
Phase One: The Research (Kinda)
- First off, I hit up the internet. Not gonna lie, it was a mess. So much conflicting info, you know? Some stuff seemed legit, some… not so much.
- Watched a few vids. Some were helpful, focusing on technique and communication. Others were just… weird. Quickly skipped those.
- Talked to a friend. She gave me the real talk, no BS. Said it’s all about paying attention and doing what feels good.
Phase Two: The Trial Run (With Consent, Obviously)
Alright, here’s where things got real. Communication is key, people! This is not a guessing game. We talked beforehand about what he liked and didn’t like. Super important.
- Started slow. Lots of kissing and teasing. Get things warmed up, you know?
- Used my hands a bit first, just to gauge his reaction. See what he was into.
- Then, the main event. Took it slow and steady at first. Focused on rhythm and pressure.
- Stopped a couple of times to check in. Asked if the pressure was okay, if he liked the speed. This is HUGE.
- Tried different techniques. Some worked, some didn’t. That’s fine! It’s all about experimenting.
- Remembered to breathe! It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and forget.
Phase Three: The Post-Game Analysis
Afterward, we talked about it. What he liked, what could be better. Honest feedback is gold, people.
- He said the slow start was good, built up the anticipation.
- Mentioned he liked when I used my hands at the same time. Good to know!
- Said I could be a little more confident. Fair enough. Practice makes perfect, right?
What I Learned
Honestly, it’s all about communication and paying attention. There’s no magic trick or secret technique. Just gotta be present, listen to your partner, and be willing to experiment. And remember, have fun! It’s supposed to be enjoyable for both of you.
So, yeah, that’s my journey so far. Still learning, still practicing. But hopefully, this helps someone else out there who’s just starting.
