Today, I’m gonna share something a bit more, uh, personal. It’s about making things better in the bedroom, specifically for her. Now, I ain’t no expert, but I’ve learned a thing or two from my own experiences and thought I’d pass it along.
So, first thing I did was try to understand what she really likes. We started talking more openly about it. It wasn’t always easy, a bit awkward at first, but it got better. I found out that she really enjoys it when I take my time. Rushing things just doesn’t cut it for her.
Paying attention
- Started paying more attention to her reactions. What makes her tick, what makes her eyes light up, you know?
- Tried to be more present. I used to get distracted, thinking about work or whatever. Now, I make an effort to focus just on her.
Then I started experimenting a bit. I read up a little online, nothing too crazy. I learned about this “pairing” thing, where you stimulate her clitoris at the same time as penetration.
Actionable thing
- Tried it out, and boy, did it make a difference! She was way more into it than usual.
- Started using my fingers more. I always kind of neglected that before, but now I realize how important it is.
Another thing I focused on was just being a good partner, not just in bed but outside of it too. It makes sense, you know? If you’re a jerk all day, she’s not gonna be all lovey-dovey at night.</p
