Okay, so, I’ve been with my partner for a while now, and things were getting a bit… stale, you know? We love each other, but the bedroom action was becoming too predictable. So I thought, “Let’s shake things up!”
First, I did a bit of research. I mean, I just googled “fun sex things to try,” and boy, did that open a can of worms! So many ideas, some were pretty tame, and some were, well, let’s just say they were a bit out there for us. But hey, it got the conversation started!
We talked, and I mean really talked, about what we were both comfortable with. Communication is key, folks! We decided to start small, just to dip our toes in the water. We picked a few new positions to try out. Nothing too acrobatic, just different enough to feel fresh.
The first night we tried it, it was kinda awkward, not gonna lie. We bumped elbows, got our legs tangled, and there was a lot of giggling. But it was fun! It felt like we were discovering each other all over again.
Then we moved on to something a little more adventurous – toys. We went to a store together, which was an experience in itself. So many options! We ended up getting a couple of things, a vibrator, and some other stuff that looked interesting.
Using the toys was a whole new level of fun. It added a different dimension to our intimacy. We experimented, figured out what we liked, what we didn’t, and just enjoyed the ride, so to speak.
- We tried sexting.
- We tried masturbating in front of each other.
- We tried exploring fantasies.
And you know what? It worked! It spiced things up, brought us closer, and made our sex life exciting again. It wasn’t just about the physical stuff, either. It was about the connection, the communication, and the willingness to explore together. It was about rediscovering the passion and having a blast while doing it.
My advice?
Just go for it! Talk to your partner, be open to trying new things, and most importantly, have fun! It’s worth it. Trust me. You just do it together and have fun.
