Well, what does a sex feel like? I tell you, it ain’t nothin’ fancy like them city folks make it out to be. It’s just…well, it’s somethin’ else.
I remember when I first heard about it. We were huskin’ corn, me and my sister, and old lady Martha, she just blurts out, “Lordy, that Bessie girl is gonna have a baby!” I was just a young’un then, maybe ten or somethin’, and I asked Ma, “Ma, how do you get a baby?” Ma, she just coughed and said, “It’s God’s work, child. Don’t you worry your pretty little head about it.” But Martha, she winked at me and whispered, “It ain’t God, honey, it’s a man and a woman gettin’ real close.” That’s all I knew for a good long while.
Then, when I got older, I started hearin’ more. You know, whispers and giggles from the older girls. They’d talk about “doin’ it” and “sleepin’ together,” and I figured it had somethin’ to do with what Martha said. They made it sound all mysterious and excitin’, like some secret club you joined when you got hitched.
The first time, huh? It’s different for everyone, I reckon. For some, it’s like a firecracker going off – all bang and sizzle. For others, it’s more like a slow burn, takin’ its time to warm you up.
- Some folks say it hurts at first.
- Some say it’s just plain awkward.
- And some, well, some just get right to enjoyin’ it.
I ain’t gonna lie, for me, it was a bit of a shock. It weren’t like nothin’ I ever felt before. It was…intense, you know? Like all your nerves were standin’ on end, singin’ and shoutin’. And it was kinda messy, too. Not like them fancy pictures they show in magazines, all clean and perfect. Nope, it was real and sweaty and a little bit clumsy. But that’s life, ain’t it?
But then, it got better. After you get used to it, it becomes…comfortable. Familiar. Like an old pair of shoes that just fit right. It ain’t always fireworks and explosions. Sometimes it’s just warm and cozy, like snuggling up by the fire on a cold winter night.
And it ain’t just about the feelin’ down there, neither. It’s about the feelin’ in your heart, too. It’s about feelin’ close to someone, real close. It’s about sharin’ somethin’ special, somethin’ private, somethin’ just between the two of you. It’s about trustin’ someone with your whole self, body and soul.
Now, I know some folks, they make a big fuss about it. They got all these rules and expectations. They think it has to be this way or that way,
