Okay, so, “kinkiest things,” huh? Let’s just say my weekend got a little… experimental. It all started with a silly conversation with my partner. We were joking around, watching some dumb show, and somehow we ended up talking about trying new things. Not, like, skydiving or anything. You know… other new things.
First, I did a quick browse online. Just to, you know, get some ideas. I wasn’t looking for anything specific, more like seeing what’s even out there. A lot of it was way too out there, even for this little adventure. Some stuff was straight-up weird.
We decided to start small. Like, really small. So, we went to this little shop downtown – you know, one of those discreet ones with the dark windows? I felt like a teenager buying, well… you know. Super awkward. But the lady behind the counter was surprisingly chill. No judgment, just helpful advice. We ended up grabbing a few, uh, “beginner-friendly” items. A blindfold, some soft restraints… that kind of thing.
The Experiment
Back home, it was a mix of nervous giggles and “are we really doing this?” We put on some music, dimmed the lights, and just… went for it. I tied the blindfold on my partner first. It was surprisingly… freeing? Not being able to see definitely heightened the other senses. We took it slow, lots of teasing and exploring.
Then we switched. Feeling my hands gently restrained, even just with a soft silk scarf, was a whole different experience. It’s weird how something so simple can change the dynamic so much. It’s all about trust, you know? You have to be completely comfortable with the other person, otherwise, it’s just going to be… uncomfortable.
The Results
- Surprisingly fun: Way less awkward than I thought it would be.
- Communication is key: Seriously, talking about what you’re into and not into is essential.
- Start slow: No need to jump into the deep end. Baby steps!
- It’s not for everyone: And that’s totally okay.
We didn’t go crazy, but we definitely stepped outside our comfort zone. And honestly? It was kind of hot. Not something we’ll do every day, but it definitely added a little spice to the usual routine. Would I recommend it? Maybe. If you’re curious and you have a partner you trust completely, it can be a fun way to explore. Just, you know, maybe don’t start with the industrial-strength stuff. Keep it light, keep it fun, and most importantly, keep it safe.
