Alright, let’s get into this whole Pisces and Sagittarius thing, specifically the bedroom part. It’s funny, I never put much stock in star signs and all that jazz. Just seemed like vague stuff people said. But then, life happens, right? You actually live through some things and start connecting dots, maybe.
So, I found myself dating a Sagittarius a while back. I’m a Pisces, through and through – kinda go-with-the-flow, maybe a bit in my own head sometimes. He was… well, classic Sagittarius. Full of energy, blunt, always ready for the next thing, adventure calling 24/7. At first, it was exciting, you know? His energy kinda pulled me out of my shell.
Trying to Make it Work
Getting comfortable together, like really comfortable, took some doing. It wasn’t bad, don’t get me wrong, but it felt like we were speaking slightly different languages sometimes, even physically.
My process was basically trying to figure out what he was about. Sagittarians, or at least this Sagittarian, seemed very direct, very physical, almost like a fun sport. Lots of energy, very enthusiastic. Which is great! But sometimes I was looking for something… different. Maybe slower, more connection, less like we were trying to win a race.
Finding the Rhythm (or Not)
- Experimenting: We definitely tried stuff. He was always up for trying new things, which pushed me a bit, could be fun.
- Communication?: Talking about it was… okay. He wasn’t big on deep emotional talks about intimacy. It was more like, “Did you like that?” followed by a quick change of subject. I tried to explain my side, the more emotional connection stuff I sometimes craved. Sometimes it landed, sometimes it felt like I was talking to a wall.
- The Clash: The main thing I remember noticing, my big takeaway from my practice run, was the difference in approach. He was fire, needing action and excitement. I was water, needing feeling and merging. Sometimes fire and water make steam, which can be hot and exciting. Other times, one puts the other out.
So, What’s the Verdict from My End?
Honestly? From my little experiment, my personal ‘practice record’ on this? It was a mixed bag. There were definitely moments of fun, high energy, passion. He brought an adventurous spirit that was infectious.
But there was also this feeling of disconnect sometimes. Like we weren’t quite meeting in the middle. He wanted fun and freedom, I wanted deep connection and understanding. In bed, that translated to him wanting playful exploration and me wanting something that felt more emotionally intimate. It wasn’t always easy to bridge that gap.
So, are they “good”? I guess it depends on what you’re looking for and how much work both people are willing to put in to understand the other’s language. For us, it was exciting for a while, but ultimately, it felt like we were just too different in what we needed from that closeness. It took actually living it to see that, way more than just reading some sign compatibility online.
