Getting Into It
So, you’re curious about how it all went down. Wasn’t some big planned event, not the first time anyway. More like a conversation that snowballed. We were just talking one night, usual stuff, then somehow landed on trying new things. The idea popped up, kinda hung in the air for a bit.
Preparation was key, honestly. Wasn’t just about grabbing lube and a toy. Took some real talk beforehand. What felt okay, what didn’t. Boundaries, you know? Felt a bit awkward at first, like laying out rules for a game you’ve never played. We picked out a toy together, nothing too crazy to start. Simple silicone thing. Got plenty of lube, everyone says that’s important, and they’re damn right.
- We set aside some time, made sure we wouldn’t be interrupted. Phones off.
- Dimmed the lights, tried to make it relaxed, not clinical.
- Did a lot of foreplay first, get things warmed up generally.
The Main Event
When it actually started, yeah, it was intense. Lots of deep breaths involved. Started slow, really slow. Communication was constant – “you good?”, “more pressure?”, “less?”. Felt strange, definitely a new sensation. Not instantly pleasurable like you might think, more of a building pressure. Finding the right angle took some trial and error. There were moments it felt awkward, moments we almost laughed, moments it was just… intense pressure. Had to really relax into it, which is easier said than done when your body’s kinda saying “what the hell is this?”.
It wasn’t like flipping a switch. Took patience from both sides. My partner was really attentive, watching my reactions, adjusting. That made a huge difference. If she’d just gone for it without checking in, probably would’ve been a disaster. It built up gradually. Different kind of feeling. Deep, internal. Hard to describe, really. Not pain, not exactly pleasure at first, just… presence. Then it shifted. Found a spot, I guess. Yeah.
Afterwards and Thoughts
Afterwards, we just laid there for a bit. Talked it through. What felt good, what didn’t, what was surprising. Felt closer, weirdly. Like we’d navigated something tricky together and came out the other side alright. It wasn’t some earth-shattering revelation that changed everything forever, more like adding another layer to things.
It’s funny, takes so much communication and trust for something like this. Reminds me of trying to get a project done at my old place. You could have all the parts, but if people weren’t talking honestly or willing to adjust, the whole thing would just stall or fall apart. Had one manager who just wouldn’t listen, barrelled ahead with his plan regardless. Total mess. This felt like the opposite – had to be in sync, had to listen. Made all the difference.
