Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this guy, a Sagittarius, and I’m a Taurus. It’s been… interesting, to say the least. I wanted to document the whole thing, you know, just to see where it goes, if it goes anywhere. So, here’s how it all started.
The Meet-Cute (Or Not So Cute)
We met online. Typical, I know. I swiped right because he had a picture of himself hiking, and I’m all about that outdoor life. He messaged me something goofy, which I appreciated. Tauruses like stability, but we also enjoy a good laugh. We chatted for a few days, and he seemed pretty chill, very adventurous. I’m more of a “stay home and bake cookies” kind of girl, but opposites attract, right?
The First Date Rollercoaster
He suggested rock climbing. Rock climbing! Me! I’m strong, sure, but I’m also, like, grounded. Anyway, I figured, why not? Stepped outside my comfort zone. It was…a lot. He was super enthusiastic, bouncing around like a golden retriever. I was more…methodical. Slow and steady. It was kinda symbolic, now that I think about it.
Dinner afterward was better. We talked for hours, and he was actually a really good listener. Sagittarius men are supposed to be all about freedom and fun, but he seemed genuinely interested in my (admittedly less exciting) life. He even remembered that I said I love Italian food. Points for him.
The Ups and Downs (Mostly Ups, So Far)
We’ve been seeing each other for a few months now. It’s a learning process. For example:
- He plans these spontaneous trips. Like, “Hey, wanna go camping this weekend?” And I’m like, “Can I at least pack a proper picnic basket?” We’re compromising. I’m learning to be a bit more spontaneous, and he’s learning that planning is not a dirty word.
- He’s very…direct. Tauruses can be stubborn, but we also appreciate honesty. Sometimes his honesty is a bit too much, but I’d rather have that than someone who beats around the bush.
- We have different love languages. He showers affection by planning quality time and he loves spending time with me. Meanwhile I’m over here baking him his favorite cookies. I showed my love through physical touch and *’re figuring it out.
Making Progress
We’ve been seeing each other more regularly, and it’s been…nice. Really nice. There was that time he surprised me with tickets to a concert, he’s been very thoughtful. He also seems to appreciate my homebody tendencies more. We had a movie night at my place last week, and he actually seemed to enjoy just chilling on the couch with me.
I’m cautiously optimistic. I know the stereotypes: Sagittarius is the wild child, Taurus is the homebody. But we’re making it work, learning from each other. Maybe it’s the differences that make it interesting. I’m still taking it slow, because, well, I’m a Taurus. But it’s definitely an adventure, and I’m along for the ride, even if I’m packing extra snacks and a first-aid kit.
