So, the other day, I was bored out of my mind and got to thinking, “What’s a good way to meet some new people, you know, just to hang out with?” Not for dating or anything, just purely platonic, male friendships. Then I remembered all those dating apps and websites, and I wondered if there was something similar but for friends. I started digging around, and let me tell you, it was a bit of a wild goose chase.
First, I hit up the usual suspects. You know, the big names in online dating. Places like Tinder and Bumble. They have these options to switch to “BFF mode” or something like that. I gave it a shot, but honestly, it felt kinda weird. Like, you’re on a dating app, but not really? It’s all mixed signals, and most of the guys there seemed to be looking for, well, more than just friendship. Not exactly what I was after.
- Tried Tinder, but it felt like a dating app pretending.
- Bumble BFF was a bit better, but still not quite right.
Then I started looking for something more specific. I stumbled upon this app called Patook. Apparently, it’s designed specifically for platonic connections. Interesting, right? I made a profile, filled out all the details about my hobbies and interests, and started browsing. There were some cool guys on there, but the user base seemed pretty small. It was hard to find people nearby who shared my interests. Plus, the app itself was a bit clunky. Not the best experience, to be honest.
Diving Deeper into Niche Communities
After that, I thought maybe I should try to find groups of guys with similar interests. I’m a big fan of hiking and gaming, so I searched for online communities around those hobbies. I joined a few Discord servers and Facebook groups dedicated to hiking and a couple of my favorite games. This was definitely a step in the right direction. I started chatting with people, joined some virtual game nights, and even planned a hiking trip with a few guys I met online. It was actually pretty fun! But I don’t know why it still hard to start a real conversation. I think most of them just don’t care about friend with others.
- Discord servers were great for finding gamers.
- Facebook groups helped me connect with fellow hikers.
Finding Real-Life Connections
Even though the online stuff was working out okay, I still wanted to find some real-life connections. So, I started looking into local meetups. I used Meetup, the website, to find groups that met in my city. There were groups for all sorts of things, from book clubs to sports teams to, yes, even hiking and gaming. I went to a few meetups, and it was a mixed bag. Some were great, and I met some really cool people. Others were a bit awkward, and I didn’t really click with anyone. But hey, that’s just how it goes sometimes, right? It makes me tried to think “How can I start a conversation with people who I have never met.”
- Meetup was hit or miss, but I did meet some cool people.
In the end, I realized that finding male friends online is totally possible, but it takes some effort. You gotta put yourself out there, try different things, and be patient. It’s not always easy, but it’s definitely worth it. I’ve made some great friends through this whole process, both online and offline. We go hiking, play games, and just hang out. It’s been a really positive experience overall.
So, if you’re looking to make some new male friends, don’t be afraid to try out some of these methods. It might take some time, but you’ll eventually find your people. Just remember to be yourself, be open to new experiences, and have fun with it! You never know who you might meet.
