Well, well, well, you young folks wanna know what does sex feel like for guys, huh? Back in my day, we didn’t talk about such things so openly. But times have changed, I guess. So, let me tell ya, it’s something else, that’s for sure.

My old man, bless his soul, he used to say it was like comin’ home after a long day of workin’ in the fields. That feelin’ of relief, ya know? Like you can finally let go and just be. That’s one way to put it, I reckon.
That Warm Feeling
It’s warm, that’s for darn sure. Like a warm cushion, some folks say. Like slippin’ your feet into a pair of warm socks on a cold winter mornin’. Comfortable and safe. Makes ya feel all fuzzy inside.
And it’s tight, too. Not like your jeans after ya put on a few pounds during the holidays, but a good kind of tight. Like a hug from your favorite grandchild. It’s a feelin’ of bein’ held, of bein’ wanted. Makes a man feel good, ya know?
- It’s warm, like a summer day.
- It’s tight, like a good hug.
- It’s soft, like a baby’s bottom.
More Than Just a Feeling
But it ain’t just about the physical stuff. There’s more to it than that. It’s about connection. It’s about bein’ close to someone, sharin’ somethin’ special. Somethin’ you can’t get any other way. When a man is bein’ intimate with his partner, he wants to feel like he is connectin’ with her. He’s feelin’ those feel good sex hormones, ya know?
My old man, he used to say it was like plantin’ seeds in the spring. You put that seed in the ground, and you hope it grows into somethin’ beautiful. That’s what it’s like, that feelin’ of hope and possibility. It makes a man feel alive, like he’s part of somethin’ bigger than himself. Of course, sexual intercourse is about pleasure, but also about connection.

Some young fellas these days, they talk about it like it’s just a physical thing. Like goin’ to the gym or somethin’. But it ain’t like that. It’s more than that. It’s about your heart, and your soul, and your mind. All of it.
Like Coming Home
When a man is really connected to his partner, it’s like…like comin’ home. Like I said before. You know that feelin’ when you been away for a long time, and you finally get back to your own bed? That’s it. That’s the feelin’. Some men even say it is silky soft.
It’s a feelin’ of peace, and contentment. A feeling of being where you are supposed to be, with the person that you are supposed to be with. Men can be ready for physical pleasure any time, sure. But a good man wants to make sure his partner is feelin’ good, too.
- It’s a feelin’ of connection.
- It’s a feelin’ of hope.
- It’s a feelin’ of comin’ home.
Now, I ain’t sayin’ it’s always like that. Sometimes it’s just a quick tumble in the hay, and that’s fine, too. Nothin’ wrong with a little fun every now and then. But when it’s real, when it’s with someone you care about, it’s somethin’ special.
It’s Different for Everyone
Of course, every man is different. We all got our own ways of feelin’ things. Some men are more sensitive than others. Some men are more emotional. It all depends on the person. I’ve heard that it feels different for gay men, and that’s okay. We should let people be happy.

But I think, deep down, it’s the same for all of us. That need for connection, that need to feel loved and wanted. That’s what it’s all about, ain’t it? That’s what makes us human. Sometimes men are all about their own pleasure. But sometimes, it is about love, too.
So, there ya have it. That’s what sex feels like for guys, at least as far as this old lady can tell ya. It’s a lot of things, all mixed up together. It’s physical, it’s emotional, it’s everything in between. It’s a part of life, and it’s a beautiful thing, when it’s done right.
Just remember to be safe, and be respectful, and most importantly, be with someone you care about. That’s the secret, right there. That’s what makes it all worthwhile.