Okay, so I decided to mess around and build a little something the other day – a generator for sex truth or dare questions. Yeah, you heard that right. It started pretty simply, really. Was thinking about games for couples or maybe a very specific kind of party, and realized finding good, interesting questions on the fly is tough. The usual stuff gets boring fast.

Getting Started: The Hunt for Questions
First thing I did was dive into gathering the actual questions. This wasn’t as easy as just grabbing a list off some random site. A lot of them are either super tame or just plain weird. I wanted a mix, you know? Some stuff that makes you think, some that makes you blush, and some dares that are actually doable and, well, fit the theme.
So, I started brainstorming myself. Thinking back on conversations, things I was curious about, situations. Then I did dig around online, but I was picky. I grabbed ideas from different places – forums, articles, even some snippets from books, believe it or not. I ended up with a big, messy list.
Sorting it all out was the next step. I had to categorize them:
- Truth questions – the probing kind.
- Dare questions – the action kind.
And within those, I tried to get a range from kinda mild to pretty spicy. Didn’t want everything to be full-on intense right away. It took a while to filter, rephrase things to sound more natural, and ditch the really dumb ones. Ended up with two solid lists, one for Truth, one for Dare.
Building the “Generator” Part
Now, how to make it actually generate? I’m not talking fancy code here, though you could. Initially, I just thought about the old-school method: write ’em down on slips of paper and put them in two hats or jars. Simple, works every time. You just pick one when it’s your turn.

But I wanted something a bit more digital, easier to share or use on a phone. So, I played around with a basic spreadsheet first. Just two columns, Truth and Dare. Put all the questions in. Then you can just use a random number generator (like the one you find online easily, or even `=RANDBETWEEN` in the spreadsheet itself) to pick a row number. Row number tells you which question to ask. Dead simple.
I even thought about putting it into a basic notes app on my phone, using bullet points. You could scroll with your eyes closed and stop on one. Low tech, but it does the job when you’re in the moment.
Trying it Out & Final Thoughts
Did I test it? Well, let’s just say I reviewed the lists quite a bit to make sure they flowed okay and had a good variety. The random picking method, whether digital or paper, works fine. It’s random, that’s the point.
Honestly, building this little “generator” was kind of interesting. It’s less about tech and more about curating the content – the questions themselves. Having that list ready, whether it’s slips of paper or a simple digital list, makes the game itself way better. No awkward pauses while someone tries to think of a good question. It’s just grab and go.
So yeah, that was my little project. Took an idea, gathered the bits and pieces, and put together something usable. Nothing groundbreaking, but it does what it says on the tin. And it was a decent way to spend an afternoon figuring things out.
