Alright, let’s talk about this girlfriend test thing, you know, seein’ if she’s the real deal or just a flash in the pan. I ain’t no expert, mind you, just an old woman who’s seen a thing or two.
First off, is she good to ya? I mean, real good. Does she listen when you talk, even when you’re ramblin’ on about the price of eggs or how that darn rooster keeps crowin’ before sunrise? It ain’t about fancy dinners or expensive gifts, it’s about the little things, the everyday kindness. Like, does she bring you a cup of coffee in the mornin’ without you askin’? Or maybe rub your back when it’s achin’? That’s what matters.
- Does she respect you? Even when you’re bein’ a stubborn old mule? A good woman, she’ll tell you when you’re wrong, but she’ll do it with love, not with spite. She won’t make you feel small or stupid. She respects your opinions, even if they’re different from hers.
- Can you count on her? When the goin’ gets tough, is she there? Life ain’t always sunshine and roses, ya know. There’ll be storms, and you need someone who’ll stand by your side, not run for cover at the first sign of trouble.
- Does she make you laugh? Lord knows, life’s too short to be serious all the time. A good woman, she’ll bring joy into your life, make you smile even when you feel like cryin’. She appreciates your silly jokes, even the corny ones.
Now, some folks say the real test is when you’re apart. They call it that long-distance relationship thing. Like, if you miss her somethin’ awful when she’s gone, then that’s love. I guess there’s somethin’ to that. If you feel like a piece of you is missin’, and you can’t wait to see her again, well, that’s a pretty good sign. But distance ain’t the only test, mind you.
Another thing, does she choose you? Not all the time, of course. She’s gotta have her own life, her own friends. But when it matters, when you really need her, does she put you first? Does she choose to spend time with you over her friends sometimes? If she always chooses her friends over you, that’s not a good sign. It’s like that old sayin’, “actions speak louder than words.” She can say she loves you all day long, but if her actions don’t show it, then them words ain’t worth a hill of beans.
And here’s somethin’ important, does she accept you for who you are? Flaws and all. Nobody’s perfect, not you, not me, not her. If she’s tryin’ to change you, make you into somethin’ you’re not, then she ain’t the one. A good woman, she’ll love you for your good parts and your bad parts. She’ll love you when you’re at your best, and she’ll love you when you’re at your worst.
The trust thing, that’s a big one. Can you trust her? And can she trust you? If you’re always lookin’ over your shoulder, worryin’ about what she’s doin’ or who she’s talkin’ to, that ain’t no way to live. A good relationship is built on trust, like a good house is built on a solid foundation. Without trust, you got nothin’. If you can’t trust her, there’s no foundation, the whole thing will just crumble.
Now, don’t go lookin’ for perfection, ’cause you ain’t gonna find it. We’re all just human, makin’ mistakes and learnin’ as we go. But if you find a woman who’s kind, respectful, trustworthy, and who makes you laugh, well, hold on to her tight. And remember, love ain’t just a feelin’, it’s a choice. You gotta choose to love her every day, even when it’s hard. And she’s gotta choose to love you back. That’s what makes it real. That’s what makes it last.
So, that’s my two cents on this girlfriend test thing. Like I said, I ain’t no expert, just an old woman who’s seen a thing or two. But if you listen to your heart and pay attention to the little things, you’ll know if she’s the one. And if she ain’t, well, there’s plenty of fish in the sea, as they say. Just don’t settle for less than you deserve. You deserve someone who loves you for who you are, and who makes you happy. That’s the real test, I reckon. Good luck to ya.
