Okay, let’s talk about this sex bucket list thing. It all started when my partner and I felt like our sex life was getting a bit, well, predictable. We love each other, but the spark was missing. So, we started talking about ways to spice things up, and that’s when we stumbled upon this “sex bucket list” idea.
First, we each made a list of things we’ve always wanted to try. It was a little awkward at first, putting our fantasies down on paper. But it got easier. We wrote down everything, from the vanilla stuff to the more adventurous things we’d only ever dreamed about.
Then came the fun part – comparing lists. We sat down one night, with a bottle of wine, and read each other’s lists. Some things were easy to agree on. Others, well, let’s just say we had some interesting conversations. The key was to be open and respectful, no judgment.
- We started with the easy stuff. Trying out new positions, you know, the ones you see in magazines but never actually do. It was fun, a lot of laughing and “oops, that doesn’t work.”
- Then we moved on to role-playing. I’ll admit, I felt silly at first, but once we got into it, it was a blast. It’s amazing how a change of scenery, even if it’s just in your head, can make things feel new again.
- We even ventured into using toys. That was a whole new world for us. We did some research, ordered a few things online, and spent a few nights experimenting. Some were a hit, some were a miss, but it was all part of the adventure.
The biggest challenge was scheduling time for this. With work and life, it’s easy to let intimacy take a back seat. But we made a pact to prioritize our sex life, just like we would any other important appointment.
What we’ve learned
This whole experience has brought us closer. We communicate better, not just about sex, but about everything. We’ve learned to laugh at ourselves and not take things too seriously. And most importantly, we’ve rediscovered the passion that we thought was fading. It’s not just about the physical act, it’s about the connection, the intimacy, the shared experience. It may need more time to prepare, but it really brought us a lot of fun!
So, that’s my story about our sex bucket list journey. It’s been a wild ride, and it’s not over yet. We’re still checking things off our list, and adding new ones as we go. It’s an ongoing adventure, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
