Alright, so I tried this “secret threesome” thing. It was on my mind for a while, you know? Felt like my sex life needed a little boost. I mean, things were getting stale, and I needed something new. So I thought, why not give it a shot? I gotta say, it was a wild ride, but not without some planning.
First off, I had to figure out what I really wanted from this. Was it just for kicks? A way to spice things up? Or something more? I spent some time thinking about it, and I realized I wanted it to be fun and exciting, but also respectful and safe for everyone involved. That was important to me.
Next up, the talking. Oh boy, the talking. You can’t just jump into something like this without some serious conversation. I talked to my partner about it, and we discussed our boundaries, what we were comfortable with, and what we definitely weren’t okay with. It was a long talk, but it was super necessary. We had to be on the same page.
Then came the part of finding a third person. We decided to look for someone we both found attractive and who seemed like they’d be into it. We wanted someone who was respectful and understood our boundaries. It took some time, but we eventually found someone who seemed like a good fit.
Before the big day, we all talked again. We laid out the ground rules, what we were expecting, and what we wanted to avoid. We talked about safe words, and we made sure everyone felt comfortable and heard. Communication was key, let me tell you.
When the time finally came, we were all a bit nervous, but also excited. We started slow, just getting to know each other and feeling out the vibe. We tried different things, different positions, some worked better than others. Oral sex was definitely a hit, and so was mutual masturbation. We experimented a bit, and we found what worked for us.
- We made sure to check in with each other throughout, making sure everyone was still comfortable and having fun.
- There were a few awkward moments, sure, but we laughed them off and kept going.
- It wasn’t perfect, but it was definitely an experience.
Afterward, we all talked again. We shared our thoughts, what we liked, what we didn’t like, and whether we’d do it again. It was important to process the whole thing and make sure everyone felt good about it. And the important thing is I achieved my goal.
So, would I recommend a threesome? It depends. It’s definitely not for everyone. But if you’re curious, and you’re willing to put in the work to communicate and plan, it can be a fun and exciting experience. Just remember to be respectful, safe, and always, always talk things through.
It was a wild adventure, I did it, but it is also not as simple as I thought. But hey, at least I can say I tried it, right?
My conclusion is:
The whole threesome thing was an adventure, for sure. Not something I’d do every day, but it was interesting to try. Just remember: talk, plan, and be safe. That’s my advice.
