Okay, here’s my sharing about “men going down on women”:
So, I’ve been with my girl for a few years now, and let me tell you, the journey to mastering the art of going down has been, well, a journey. At first, I was clueless. I mean, they don’t exactly teach this stuff in school, right? I remember the first few times, I was so nervous, I probably overthought the whole thing. My hands were all over the place, my tongue was doing some weird stuff, and I was just hoping I was doing something right.
But, like anything, practice makes perfect. And communication, man, that’s the key. I started paying more attention to her reactions, you know? Little things like a change in her breathing, a slight moan, or even just the way she moved her body. Those were my clues.
Getting Started
- First of all, you need to know that every woman is different, and she knows herself better than you, so pay attention to her reactions and feedback.
- I started paying close attention to what she liked. Sometimes she’d guide me with her hands, other times she’d just tell me straight up. And you know what? There’s no shame in asking. It actually shows you care.
- It is also important to leave your ego at the door and be willing to learn.
- The first thing I did was make sure the setting was right. You know, dimmed the lights, put on some music, that kind of thing. Just trying to set a chill vibe.
- Don’t forget the hygiene, brushing my teeth is a must, and neaten up the edges.
- Then, it was all about taking my time. No rush, no pressure. Just slow, easy movements. I started with some light kissing, inner thighs, working my way up.
The Fun Part
- Once I got to the main event, I remember reading something about focusing on the clitoris, most men love to do that. So I did. I started with light, circular motions with my tongue. Gentle at first, then gradually increasing the pressure based on her reactions.
- I mixed things up, too. Sometimes I’d use my fingers, sometimes just my tongue. Sometimes I’d go fast, sometimes slow. The key was to keep it interesting and see what she responded to best.
- And let me tell you, when you hit that sweet spot, you’ll know. The way she arches her back, the way her breath catches, it’s like a whole different level of connection.
Wrapping Up
- It’s not just about the physical act, it’s also important to keep the connection strong, look into her eyes, and let her know you’re enjoying it too.
- And remember, it’s not a race. There were times when she’d climax multiple times, and times when she didn’t at all. And that’s okay. It’s about the journey, the connection, the intimacy.
- The most important thing is that both of you have fun and enjoy the experience.
It’s been a learning experience, for sure. But now, I can confidently say I’m pretty damn good at it. And the best part? Seeing her so satisfied, so happy, that’s the real reward. It’s not just about sex, it’s about making her feel good, you know? And that’s what it’s all about.
