Well, howdy there! Today, we’re gonna talk about somethin’ a bit… personal. You know, that thing between a man and another man. Yeah, that’s right, man on man oral. Don’t go gettin’ all blushy on me now, it’s just life, ain’t it?
Now, I ain’t no fancy doctor or nothin’, but I’ve heard some things, seen some things. People gettin’ all tangled up, doin’ all sorts of stuff. Some folks say it’s all about love. They say, if you love each other, whatever you do is just fine. Love is love, that’s what the young’uns say these days. And you know, maybe they’re right. If two fellas wanna get cozy and do their thing, well, who am I to judge? It ain’t hurtin’ nobody, is it?
I heard tell that some men, they like to kiss and cuddle before things get… you know… steamy. It’s like a warm-up, I guess. Like bakin’ a pie, you gotta get the oven hot first, right? And then, there’s the touchin’. Not just any touchin’, mind you. Touchin’ skin, below the neck, but not… you know… down there. Not yet, anyways. It’s all a dance, a slow dance, sometimes fast, sometimes slow, depends on the music, I reckon.
Folks are always curious, always askin’ questions. Even grown men, they got questions! They go to them fancy doctors, askin’ all sorts of things. Is this normal? Does that feel right? I tell you what, it’s a whole lot simpler than they make it out to be. If it feels good, and everyone’s happy, then it’s probably alright.
- Is it normal? Who knows what’s normal these days! Everyones different like snowflakes.
- Does it hurt? Well, it shouldn’t if you’re doin’ it right. Gotta be gentle, like holdin’ a baby bird.
- What if I don’t like it? Then don’t do it! Simple as that. Don’t let nobody force you into nothin’ you don’t wanna do.
And then there’s this talk about… you know… down there. Oral sex, they call it. Some fellas like it, some fellas don’t. It’s all a matter of taste, like some folks like sweet tea and some folks like it unsweet. There’s different ways of doin’ it too, I hear. Just like there’s a hundred ways to skin a cat, though I ain’t never skinned no cat myself.
Now, I ain’t gonna lie, there’s some risks involved in all this messin’ around. You gotta be careful, gotta be smart. Just like you gotta wash your hands before you eat, you gotta be clean and safe when you’re gettin’ intimate with someone. Nobody wants to get sick, nobody wants to get hurt. And if you’re not sure, ask someone who knows. Don’t be ashamed, it’s better to be safe than sorry. They say talkin’ about things is a good way to not get into trouble.
Some city folks, they like to Google everything, you know? They type in all sorts of crazy questions about sex. It’s like they never learned nothin’ from their mamas! But I guess that’s just the way things are these days. Everyone’s lookin’ for answers, everyone’s tryin’ to figure things out.
So, at the end of the day, it all boils down to this: respect. Respect yourself, respect your partner. If you got that, then you can figure out the rest. Whether it’s kissin’, touchin’, or somethin’ more… you know… just be kind, be gentle, and be safe. And for goodness sake, don’t forget to talk to each other! Communication, that’s the key, just like in anythin’ else in life.
Now, I’ve said my piece. Y’all go on and live your lives, and be happy. Just remember what I told ya, and maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn a thing or two. Life’s too short to be worryin’ about what other folks think. Do what makes you happy, as long as you ain’t hurtin’ nobody else. And that’s all there is to it.
Tags: Man on Man, Oral Sex, Intimacy, Relationships, Gay Health, Sex Questions, Healthy Relationships, Respect, Communication, Safety
