Okay, so, you know how it is when you’re in a long-distance thing, right? It’s tough to keep that spark alive when you’re miles apart. I was scrolling through my phone the other day, feeling all mushy, and I started thinking, “How do I make this work?” So, I dove deep into the internet.
I found this doctor, Jennifer something, who was talking about how people use technology to, well, you know, get intimate. We’re talking sexting, video calls, all that jazz. And it got me thinking, maybe that’s what I need to do.
The Setup
- First off, I made sure my partner was cool with the idea. Gotta have that clear communication, you know? No misunderstandings, just good vibes.
- Then, I started small. Sent a couple of flirty texts, just to test the waters. Nothing too crazy, just enough to get the ball rolling.
- Next up, I decided to spice things up with some pics. But, like, tasteful ones. I wanted to tease, not give away the whole show.
Once we were both comfortable, I took the plunge and suggested a video call. We set a time, made sure we both had some privacy, and let things happen naturally. It was awkward at first, not gonna lie. But once we got into the groove, it was like we were right there together.
It felt good. Really good. And it wasn’t just about the physical stuff, you know? It was about feeling close to someone who’s far away, about sharing something special even though there’s all this distance between us.
So, yeah, that’s my story. It’s not for everyone, but for me, it worked. It brought us closer, made the distance feel a little less daunting. And in the end, that’s all that matters, right? Feeling connected, no matter how many miles are between you.
And all the tech stuff—texts, calls, social media—it all helps. It’s like, you can be miles away but still right there in each other’s pockets, you know? It’s pretty cool when you think about it.
It was weird that this made me feel closer to my partner, you know, in a real way. This isn’t for everyone, but if you and your partner are down to try it, it might be worth the effort. For me, it was, I don’t know. It felt like I was cheating or something, but it was with the partner, which made it even more bizarre. We still do it sometimes, but not as much as we used to.
If you’re curious, give it a shot. Just remember, communication is key. Talk to your partner, make sure you’re both on the same page, and who knows, you might just find a new way to keep that long-distance love alive.
We broke up anyway, so I guess it didn’t really matter much in the end. She found someone closer to home. Oh, well.
