Okay, so, “kink shaming is my kink,” right? It all started with browsing some, uh, spicy content online. I stumbled upon this phrase and was like, “Wait, what?” I mean, I’m pretty open-minded, but this felt next level. I mean to shame someone from their kink and this shame is also your kink.

So the journey starts here
Digging Deeper
I started googling, naturally. I went down a rabbit hole of forums and articles. I tried to get my head around the whole concept. Turns out, it’s a thing. A niche thing, but a thing nonetheless.
- I spent like an hour reading different perspectives.
- Some people were super into it, all about the power dynamics and the psychological play.
- Others were just curious, like me.
- I even find some stories, it sounds crazy.
Honestly, the more I read, the more intrigued I became. It was like this weird mix of “that’s messed up” and “I kind of get it.” You know that feeling when you’re watching a horror movie, and you’re terrified but you can’t look away?
Experimenting (Carefully!)
Reading is one thing but actually try it, that’s something else. I thought about it. A LOT.
- I started small. I thought about this when I was in the moment with my partner.
- I did it, it was exciting!
The Aftermath
Okay, so, full disclosure: it wasn’t some magical life-changing experience. But it was…interesting. It definitely added a new layer to things. And it got me thinking more about the whole idea of kinks and why we’re drawn to certain things.

It’s like, we all have our own little quirks, right? And who are we to judge what someone else is into? As long as everyone’s consenting and having a good time, then it’s all good. I’ve learned a lot, I still don’t understand everything about it, but I do know I enjoyed that moment.
So, yeah, that’s my “kink shaming is my kink” story. It’s still a work in progress, I guess. But hey, that’s what life’s all about, right? Exploring, learning, and occasionally stumbling upon something that totally blows your mind.