My Journey with Toys
Alright, so someone asked how I got into using toys. Wasn’t exactly planned, you know? Just kinda happened. Curiosity, maybe boredom, who knows. Point is, I decided to give it a whirl.
First thing, obviously, was getting one. That was a whole thing. Went online, looked around. So many choices, it’s nuts. Didn’t want anything too crazy to start. Found something simple, looked easy enough to handle. Added it to the cart, checked out. Felt a bit weird, but hey, whatever.
When it arrived, gotta admit, I just left the box sitting there for a day or two. Nerves, I guess. Finally opened it up. Read the instructions – yeah, I actually read them. Seemed straightforward: clean it first.
Preparation is Key
So, washing it was step one. Just soap and water, like the little paper said. Then gotta think about lube. Seriously, don’t skip this. Tried it once without much, big mistake. Grabbed some water-based stuff I had. Seems to work best, less mess and safe for the material, or so they say.
Finding the right time and place took a bit. Needed privacy, obviously. Didn’t want anyone walking in. Made sure the door was locked, maybe put on some music, dimmed the lights. Gotta set the mood, even if it’s just for yourself, right?
Getting Started
Okay, the actual using part. It’s different for everyone, I reckon. For me, it was about taking it slow.
- Started gentle, just getting used to the feel of it.
- Applied plenty of lube, both on the toy and, well, you know, where it’s going.
- Experimented a bit. Different speeds if it had settings, different angles, different spots. Took some trial and error to figure out what felt good.
- Sometimes it worked great, other times… not so much. Patience is important. Can’t force it.
Main thing was just exploring, seeing what worked for my own body. No pressure, just messing around. Sometimes I’d use it with a partner, sometimes just solo. Both are different experiences.
Clean Up and After
Afterwards, cleaning is super important. Don’t want nasty stuff growing on it. Wash it again, properly, with soap and water. Let it air dry completely before putting it away. Found a little pouch to store it in, keep it discreet and clean.
And that’s pretty much it. It’s not rocket science. Just needed to get over the initial weirdness, figure out the practical steps like cleaning and lube, and then just experiment. It’s a personal thing, find your own rhythm.
