Okay, so, last night I tried out some new stuff with my girlfriend, and let me tell you, it was something else. I’ve been reading up on how to really please a woman, because, you know, it’s not just about me. And I stumbled upon some interesting tips. So, here’s how it went down.

First off, I started with some kissing. Not just a quick peck, but a real, slow, passionate kiss. I focused on her lips, her neck, even her earlobes. I gently bit and sucked them, just to tease her a little. I moved my hands all over her body, not rushing to the usual spots, but really exploring.
Then, I used my fingers to find her clitoris. I started slow, using gentle, circular motions. I paid attention to her reactions, speeding up or slowing down based on what she seemed to like. I could feel her getting more and more excited, which got me excited too.
After that, we tried some different positions. We did the classic 69, which was fun and allowed both of us to get some action at the same time. I made sure to keep touching her clitoris while we were at it. She was really into it, moving her hips to get the best angle.
- Kissing: Lips, neck, earlobes – slow and passionate.
- Touching: All over, not just the usual spots.
- Clitoral Stimulation: Gentle, circular motions with fingers.
- 69 Position: Simultaneous pleasure, with continued clitoral stimulation.
- Woman-on-Top: Gave her control and allowed for optimal clitoral stimulation.
We also tried the woman-on-top position, which was a game-changer. She had all the control, and she could position herself to get the most pleasure. I kept my hands on her hips, guiding her movements and providing some extra stimulation. She was really into it, and I could tell she was close.
Throughout the whole thing, I kept talking to her, asking her what she liked and what felt good. Communication is key, guys. And I made sure she knew it wasn’t just about getting off, but about enjoying the whole experience together.

What I learned
In the end, she had a mind-blowing orgasm, and I felt amazing knowing I could give her that. It wasn’t just about the physical act, but about the connection and the intimacy. I realized that pleasing a woman is about paying attention, communicating, and exploring together. It’s a journey, not a race. And let me tell you, it’s a journey worth taking. So, if you’re looking to spice things up, take some time to learn what your partner likes. It’ll make all the difference, trust me.