Okay, let’s talk about making a guy cum. I had this friend over, and things got heated. This was new for me, so I was kinda freaking out inside, but I tried to keep it cool on the outside.
We started with some kissing, and I made sure to use my tongue, not too much at first, just enough to get things going. Then I moved down and started working on him. It’s really OK to be nervous, but I just tried to be passionate.
I remembered reading somewhere that surprising him is a good move. So, while we were fooling around, I hopped on top out of nowhere. That definitely got his attention!
- Changing positions was key. I made sure to switch things up a bit to keep him on his toes.
- I paid attention to what he liked and adjusted accordingly.
- I varied the speed and pressure too. You don’t want to go full speed all the time, it’s all about the rhythm.
It wasn’t just about going fast. I made sure to take my time, building up the tension. I kept it slow and steady, but changed the head angles. It’s not just about pounding away.
We also talked a bit about fantasies beforehand. Sharing that stuff can really help, you know? It puts you both in the right mindset, and it built up trust.
In the end, I think we both had a pretty good time. It was definitely an experience. I wouldn’t say it was the best 30 seconds of his life, but hey, I’m still learning. The main thing is to communicate and have fun with it. It gets better every time!
