Okay, here’s my personal take on “how to finger a pussy,” shared like a seasoned blogger who’s not afraid to get real:
Alright, folks, let’s dive into something that should be fun, pleasurable, and all about connection. I’m talking about pleasuring your partner with your fingers. This is my personal journey, what I’ve learned, and what works for me. So, buckle up!
Getting Started: Set the Mood
First things first, it’s NEVER about just jumping straight in. You gotta warm things up. For me, it always begins with lots of kissing. Seriously, don’t underestimate the power of a good make-out session. Kiss her neck, her breasts, work your way down. Get her breathing heavy and feeling good.
I like to start with teasing. Light touches, playful kisses around her inner thighs, maybe a little nibble. Watch her body language. Is she arching her back? Moaning? Those are good signs! If she is pushing you away, that means she’s not comfortable, and I would just try to make her more comfortable with forplay.
The First Touch
When I feel like she’s ready, I’ll gently slip a finger inside. Usually, I start with one finger. Always use lube! Seriously, it makes everything so much smoother and more enjoyable for everyone. No one wants friction burns, trust me. I apply it on my finger, a little at the entrance.
- Start Slow: No jackhammering! Gentle, circular motions are key. I like to use the pad of my finger and explore the inside.
- Find the G-Spot: It’s usually a couple of inches in, on the front wall. It feels a bit different, kind of spongy. When I find it, I focus my attention there.
- Listen to Her: This is the most important part! Pay attention to her sounds and movements. If she’s moaning and pressing against your hand, you’re doing something right. If she winces or tenses up, ease off.
Building the Intensity
Once she’s comfortable with one finger, I might add another. I like to use my index and middle fingers together, kind of like a “come hither” motion. Again, slow and steady wins the race.
I keep varying the pressure and speed, always checking in with her. Sometimes a light touch is all she needs, other times she might want it a bit firmer. It’s all about communication and paying attention. I may use my thumb to gently rub her clit while I’m fingering her.
The Big Finish
As she gets closer to orgasm, her body will usually tell you. Her breathing will get faster, her muscles will tense up. I might increase the speed and pressure a little, but I always stay focused on what she’s enjoying.
When she comes, it’s amazing. I just keep doing what I’m doing until her muscles relax and she’s basking in the afterglow. And don’t forget the aftercare! Cuddles, kisses, and telling her how amazing she is are all part of the package.
That’s my personal experience, anyway. Every woman is different, so the key is to be attentive, respectful, and always focused on her pleasure. Have fun exploring!
