Having sex for the first time is a big deal, I was both scared and excited! I did some research online, and found that sticking to easy positions is the best way to go. So, I’ll share what I found and how it went for me.
Missionary
First, I tried the missionary position. I read that it’s a classic and pretty straightforward. My partner and I got into position, with me lying on my back and him on top.
- Started slow, just getting comfortable with each other.
- Made sure to communicate a lot, asking if everything felt okay.
- Focused on kissing and making eye contact, which helped to keep the connection strong.
It was a good starting point, not too complicated. We were able to maintain a good rhythm and adjust our movements easily.
Beginner Doggy
Next, I wanted to try something different, so we went for the beginner doggy. Instead of full penetration, I found that this position was great for just getting used to the feeling of being close without the pressure of intercourse.
- I got on my hands and knees, and he kneeled behind me.
- We experimented with different angles and pressures.
- I focused on deep breaths, which helped to relax.
This one was less intense and allowed us to explore different sensations without going all the way. It was also nice to feel his body against mine.
Overall Experience
Overall, I kept it simple and focused on what felt good for both of us. Communication was key, and I made sure to check in with my partner frequently. We took breaks when needed and didn’t rush anything.
By the end of it, I felt more confident and less anxious about sex. It was a learning experience, and I’m glad I took the time to prepare and choose positions that were easy to manage.
