Well, let me tell you, this “sexual coming” thing, it ain’t nothin’ new under the sun. Folks been figurin’ out this stuff since, well, since forever. It’s just that now they got all these fancy words for it, like “sexuality” and “identity.” Back in my day, we just called it…well, you know…bein’ a man or a woman, and that was that. But I guess things are different now, ain’t they? More complicated, like.
What’s All This Fuss About?
So, from what I gather, this “sexual coming” is all about figuring out what gets you goin’, who you’re sweet on, and what you like in the bedroom, or wherever, I ain’t judgin’. Some folks, they know right off the bat. Man likes woman, woman likes man, end of story. But for others, it ain’t so clear-cut. They might like both, or neither, or somethin’ in between. And that’s alright, I reckon. To each their own, as they say.
- Figurin’ Out What You Like: Now, this part, it seems kinda straightforward, but I guess it can be tricky. Some folks, they like it plain and simple, others, they got their “kinks” and “fetishes,” like the youngsters call ’em. Sounds complicated to me, but hey, if it makes ’em happy, who am I to say different? It’s like some treasure chest they talkin’ about, full of all sorts of things. Boundage, they call it, and all sorts of other stuff. Makes my head spin, but as long as everyone’s willin’ and knows what’s what, I guess it’s fine.
- Who You’re Sweet On: This is where it gets real confusin’ for some folks. Used to be just boys and girls, but now you got all sorts of in-between stuff. “Bisexual,” they call it, or “bicurious.” Means they like both, I guess. And then there’s “transgender,” which means you feel like you’re in the wrong body. Now, that’s somethin’ I don’t rightly understand, but I figure if it makes ’em feel better, then that’s what matters. It’s all about who you are on the inside, they say.
It Ain’t Always Easy
This whole “sexual coming” journey, it ain’t always a walk in the park. Some folks, they get a hard time from others for bein’ different. People can be cruel, you know. They judge what they don’t understand. But it’s important to remember that you ain’t alone. There are others out there who feel the same way you do. And there’s nothin’ wrong with bein’ who you are. You gotta be true to yourself, that’s what I always say.
Talkin’ It Out
One thing I do know is that talkin’ helps. If you’re feelin’ confused or scared, find someone you trust and talk to ’em. Could be a friend, a family member, or even a counselor. Just gettin’ it off your chest can make a world of difference. And you gotta make sure everybody knows what’s goin’ on, you know, what they want and what they don’t want. Gotta be respectful, that’s the main thing. Nobody should be forced to do anythin’ they don’t wanna do.
Just Bein’ Yourself
At the end of the day, this “sexual coming” thing, it’s all about just bein’ yourself. It’s about figurin’ out who you are, what you like, and who you love. And it ain’t nobody else’s business but your own. So, don’t let anyone tell you who you should be or how you should feel. You just gotta follow your heart, and everything else will fall into place. Life’s too short to be worried about what others think. You gotta make yourself happy, that’s the most important thing.
Some Advice from an Old Woman
Now, I ain’t no expert on all this fancy stuff, but I’ve lived a long life, and I’ve seen a thing or two. And if there’s one piece of advice I can give you, it’s this: be kind to yourself and be kind to others. We’re all just tryin’ to figure things out, and we all make mistakes. But as long as we treat each other with respect, we’ll be alright. And don’t rush things. It takes time to figure out who you are and what you want. Just be patient and let things unfold naturally. And remember, you’re not alone. There are plenty of people who are going through the same thing as you, or have been through it. So don’t be afraid to reach out for help if you need it. And most importantly, be proud of who you are. Embrace your differences and don’t let anyone tell you that you’re not good enough. You are good enough, just the way you are. And don’t you forget it.
First Time Nerves
And for those young’uns just startin’ out, well, it can be scary, I reckon. All that pressure and not knowin’ what to do. Just remember to take it slow, no need to rush into nothin’. And if you ain’t sure about somethin’, just ask. Better to be safe than sorry, that’s what I always say. And make sure you’re with someone you trust, someone who respects you and your boundaries.
Exploring Your Identity
Now, this here talk about “sexual identity” and exploration…it’s like tryin’ to find your way through a cornfield at night. But from what I can gather, it’s all about understandin’ yourself better and livin’ a good life. And that’s somethin’ we all want, ain’t it? So, take your time, explore your options, and don’t be afraid to try new things. Just make sure you’re safe and respectful, both to yourself and to others.
Beliefs about Sex
Folks have all sorts of different ideas about sex. Some think it’s all about makin’ babies, others think it’s for pleasure, and some think it’s a sin. But what I think is that it’s a personal thing, and it’s up to each individual to decide what it means to them. And whatever you decide, that’s your business, and ain’t nobody else’s.
Last Words
So, there you have it. My two cents on this “sexual coming” thing. Maybe I ain’t said nothin’ you didn’t already know, but sometimes it’s good to hear things from an old woman’s perspective. Just remember to be true to yourself, be kind to others, and don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. And above all, live your life to the fullest. That’s the best advice I can give you. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I gotta go check on my chickens.
Tags: Sexual Coming, Sexual Identity, Sexuality, Relationships, Self-Discovery, Personal Growth, Coming Out, LGBTQ, Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, Sex Education, First Time, Kinks, Fetishes
