Alright, so you wanna know about this… this… “consent non-consent pegging” thing, huh? Sounds fancy, but lemme tell ya, it ain’t rocket science. It’s just about, well, you know… bein’ with someone and doin’ things, and whether everyone’s okay with it or not. That’s what I get from it, anyway.
First things first, what is pegging anyway? From what I gather, it’s when a woman, she straps on somethin’, ya know, a toy or somethin’ like that, and she, well, she uses it on her fella. Or her lady friend, I guess. It ain’t just for one kind of folks. It’s all the same down there, ain’t it? Just holes and dangly bits, no matter who ya are.
Now, this “consent” part, that’s real important. It just means everyone’s gotta be on board. Like, if you’re gonna do somethin’ with someone, ya gotta make sure they’re okay with it, right? It’s common sense. Ya don’t go pokin’ around where ya ain’t invited. It’s like borrowin’ sugar, ya gotta ask first!
- You gotta talk about it, ya hear?
- Don’t just go assumin’ folks wanna do what you wanna do.
- And if they say no, well, then it’s no! No means no, plain and simple. Don’t matter if you’re married, datin’ or just met. No is no.
And then there’s this “non-consent” thing, and this is where it gets tricky. See, some folks, they like to play games, ya know? Pretendin’ and stuff. Maybe they like the idea of bein’ surprised, or taken by surprise, like in those romance novels my niece is always readin’. But even then, there’s gotta be some kind of agreement beforehand. Like, “Hey, can we play this game where I pretend I don’t want it, but I really do?” It’s like play-actin’, gotta have a wink and a nod, ya know?
But listen here, if there ain’t no agreement, if someone says no and you do it anyway, that ain’t playin’, that’s wrong. That ain’t no fun and games, that’s hurtin’ someone. And that ain’t right, no matter how you slice it. You don’t go messin’ with someone’s body if they don’t want ya to.
So, if you’re thinkin’ about tryin’ this peggin’ thing, ya gotta be safe about it. Use lots of that slippery stuff, ya know, the lube. And go slow. Ain’t no rush. It ain’t a race, it’s… well, it’s supposed to be enjoyable for everyone involved. And if somethin’ don’t feel right, ya stop. Simple as that.
And talk to your partner, for crying out loud! Communication is key, like they say on the TV. If you can’t talk about it, maybe you shouldn’t be doin’ it. It’s all about bein’ open and honest, like sharin’ a good pie. Everyone gets a piece, and everyone’s happy.
Think of it like this, if you’re bakin’ a cake and someone don’t like raisins, you don’t go puttin’ raisins in the cake, right? Same thing here. Gotta respect what folks want and don’t want. And if they change their mind, that’s okay too. People are allowed to change their minds, just like the weather. Gotta be flexible, like a willow tree in the wind.
So, whether it’s peggin’ or somethin’ else, remember, it’s all about respect. Respect for yourself, and respect for your partner. And if you can’t do that, well, then you ain’t got no business doin’ nothin’ at all.
In conclusion, consent is king… or queen, I guess, dependin’ on who’s wearin’ the strap-on. Jokin’ aside, make sure everyone is happy and comfortable, and if they ain’t, then don’t do it. It’s that simple, no need to complicate things. Just be a decent human being, ya hear? And for goodness sake, be safe and use plenty of lube!
Tags: [Pegging, Consent, Non-consent, Sex, Relationships, Communication, Safety, Intimacy, Pleasure, Boundaries]
