Oh, honey, let me tell you, first time doing the deed, it’s a big deal! You gotta find a good spot, you know? Make it easy on yourself. Don’t be trying no fancy stuff right off the bat. This old lady will tell you how to do it.
Best position to start, that missionary thing
First off, that missionary. It’s like the plain bread of the sex world. Man on top, woman on the bottom. Easy peasy. You can see each other’s faces, hold hands, kiss a little. It’s a good way to start. You can get used to the feel of each other that way. He can go slow, you can tell him if it hurts. It’s a good one for first time, that missionary position.
Try sitting on him, it’s fun!
Then there’s that one where the girl’s on top. You sit on him. It’s kinda fun, you know? You get to be in charge. Woman on top, that’s what some folks call it. You can control how fast, how deep. It’s good if you’re a little nervous. You can make sure it feels good for you. And you can see his face, see if he’s liking it too.
Spooning, it’s like cuddling
Spooning, that’s another good one. It’s like cuddling, but, you know, more. You both lay on your side, facing the same way. He’s behind you. It’s real close, real intimate. You can whisper in each other’s ear. It’s a good way to feel connected. And it don’t take a lot of work, you know? You can just relax into it.
Don’t forget that doggy style
Now, some folks like that doggy style. That’s where you’re on your hands and knees, and he’s behind you. It can feel real good, that one. It’s a little more, how you say, animalistic? But it can be fun. Just make sure you got a good grip on the bed, you know? You don’t want to go sliding off.
Try it on a chair, if you’re feeling adventurous!
If you’re feeling a little adventurous, you could try it on a chair. He sits, you sit on his lap, facing him. It’s kinda like that woman on top, but different. You can wrap your legs around him, get real close. It’s a good one for kissing, too.
Use your hands, use your mouth
Don’t forget, it ain’t just about in and out. You can use your hands. You can use your mouth. That’s called oral sex, you know? Some folks really like that. It can be a good way to warm up, get things going. And it’s safe, too. No babies that way! You can touch each other, explore. It’s all part of it.
Make it good, make it last!
- First time can be scary, but it can be good too.
- Just find a position that’s comfy.
- Talk to each other.
- Tell him what you like.
- Don’t be afraid to try different things, find what feels good for both of you.
- Missionary, woman on top, spooning, they’re all good for beginners.
It’s all about pleasure, honey
Remember, it’s all about pleasure. It’s about feeling good. It’s about being close to someone. Don’t be in a hurry. Take your time. Explore each other. Find what you like. And don’t be afraid to say no if something don’t feel right. First time sex is important, so make it good.
And use protection! You don’t want no babies right away, do you? Be smart, be safe. There’s these things called condoms, he can wear one. It protects you from babies and from sicknesses. Very important, that.
Sex is a natural thing. Don’t be ashamed of it. Just be smart about it. Find someone you trust. Talk to them. Figure it out together. And have fun! It’s supposed to be fun, you know? Don’t make it a big scary thing. Just relax, enjoy it. You’ll be fine. This old lady knows. You can always ask for what you want, don’t be shy. Your partner will appreciate it if you tell him how to make you feel good. That’s the whole point, ain’t it? Making each other feel good.
So there you go. A few positions to try. Remember, missionary is a good place to start. Then you can try woman on top, spooning. Whatever feels good. Just be safe, be smart, and have fun! Don’t rush things. It should be a special time, and you don’t want to do anything you’re not ready for. Go at your own pace. You’ll know when the time is right. Just enjoy the ride, honey. Enjoy the ride.
