Okay, so, the other day, my partner and I were feeling a little… adventurous. We’d been in a bit of a rut, doing the same old, same old. So, I did what any modern person does – I Googled it! I typed in “side sex position” and, well, a whole new world opened up.
We decided to try a few. First up was the classic “spoons.” I have to say it’s really relaxed!
We started by both lying on our sides, facing the same direction. I was in front, and he was behind *’s pretty straightforward, * best part? It’s super intimate. You’re all cuddled up, and it felt really close, you know?
Next, we tried something called the “outercourse” variation. Think spooning, but with more, um, grinding. He positioned himself a little higher, and there was a lot more… * was definitely more intense than regular spooning! We both enjoyed the, shall we say, fullness of it.
- Pros:
- Super intimate and comfortable.
- Great for relaxation and closeness.
- Easy on the joints (important as you get older!).
- Cons:
- Can get a little same-y after a while.
- Might not be the most… acrobatic.
Finally, we wanted to experiment with facing each other. I found that lying on my side, I could lift my top leg and wrap it around his waist. He could then hold my leg for support. This one took a little bit of adjusting to get the angles right, but once we did, wow! It was intense, deep, and we could see each other’s faces, which added a whole other level of connection.
My Overall Thoughts
Honestly, playing around with side positions was a game-changer. It was a fun way to spice things up and rediscover each other. It’s not about being a contortionist; it’s about finding what feels good for both of you. And trust me, there’s a side position out there for everyone. We laughed, we fumbled, we made it work, and had a great night! Don’t be shy to try！
