Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into this whole “marriage and family therapy training” thing, and let me tell you, it’s been a journey! I figured I’d share my experience, step-by-step, because honestly, finding clear info when I started was tough.
Finding a Program
First, I spent hours, literally hours, online just trying to figure out what programs were even out there. I looked at university websites, checked out professional organizations, and even asked around in some online forums. It was overwhelming! I made a massive spreadsheet to keep track of everything – program names, locations, accreditation (super important!), tuition costs… the whole nine yards.
- Narrowed it down based on location. I wanted something close enough that I could keep my part-time job, so that was a big factor.
- Then I focused on programs accredited .This is a must, trust me. It means the program meets certain standards.
- Finally,I compared tuition and program length. Some were full-time, some part-time, some online… so many choices!
The Application Process
The application, man, that was another beast.I Gathered all my transcripts from way back when.
I wrote (and rewrote, and rewrote) my personal statement. I wanted to really show them why I was passionate about this field, you know?
I had to get letters of recommendation, too. I reached out to some old professors and a supervisor from a volunteer gig I did.
Getting My Feet Wet (Coursework & Practicum)
Once I got accepted (woohoo!), the real work began. The coursework was intense. We learned about different therapy models, family systems theory, ethics, diagnosis… my brain was constantly buzzing. I spent nights reading, writing papers, and participated in group discussions. It was challenging, but also really fascinating.
Then came the practicum. This is where you actually start working with clients, under supervision, of course. My first session? Terrifying! I remember feeling so nervous, but my supervisor was amazing. She provided guidance, feedback, and support. I slowly started to feel more confident. I learned how to build rapport, ask the right questions, and really listen to what people were saying.
Supervision – My Lifeline
Seriously, supervision was a game-changer. Every week, I met with my supervisor to discuss my cases. We reviewed session recordings, talked through challenges, and brainstormed different approaches. I learned so much from her experience and insights. It was like having a personal mentor, guiding me every step of the way.
The Grind and the Growth
It wasn’t always easy. There were times I felt overwhelmed, doubted myself, and even considered quitting. But I pushed through. I leaned on my classmates, my supervisor, and my own support system. And slowly, I started to see the growth, both in myself and in my ability to help others. It felt incredible.
I realized it is not easy,but it is worthy.I kept learning and working.
So, that’s my journey in a nutshell. It’s been a long, challenging, but ultimately rewarding experience. I’m still learning and growing every day, but I’m so glad I took this path. I’m excited to see where it leads!
