Now, let me tell ya, talkin’ ’bout somethin’ called sexual consent. Now don’t ya go thinkin’ this some fancy city talk. It just mean if ya wanna do them kinda “close” things with another person, ya both gotta say “yes” to it first, plain and simple. Both gotta be on the same page, understand?
First off, what’s this consent thing? Well, consent mean that if two folks wanna get close like that, they both gotta agree on it – I mean, really say it, or at least show they agree with a clear nod or somethin’. None of this halfway nonsense; it’s either a “yes” or it ain’t happenin’. You gotta understand that.
Now, why’s this so important? ‘Cause without this consent, it ain’t somethin’ right, and could end up bein’ a real serious problem, even somethin’ the police get called about. And we don’t want folks endin’ up on the wrong side of the law just ‘cause they didn’t understand what’s okay and what ain’t.
Consent also mean ya gotta check in, not just once, but every time. Just ‘cause a person said “yes” last time, don’t mean it’s still a “yes” next time, understand? Every time folks wanna be “close,” they gotta make sure it’s what both want.
Here’s another thing folks sometimes don’t get – consent gotta be clear and enthusiastic. That mean no one’s sittin’ there unsure or feelin’ pressured. If a person don’t look sure, or seem uncomfortable, or don’t say “yes” outright, it’s best to stop and ask. Don’t go assumin’ things.
Let me break it down even simpler:
- Both sayin’ “yes” – that’s consent.
- One sayin’ “no” – no consent.
- Silence – well, silence don’t mean “yes” neither. Best to ask and hear a clear answer.
Ya see, consent is kinda like borrowin’ somethin’. Ya wouldn’t take a neighbor’s shovel without askin’, would ya? Same goes here – askin’ is just respectful and makes sure everybody’s happy with what’s goin’ on. And, if someone ever says “no,” don’t go pushin’ them to change their mind. People got a right to their own bodies, plain and simple.
Then there’s the matter of when a person’s not able to say yes or no – like maybe they’re sleepin’, or had too much drink. Now that ain’t the time to even think about askin’ for any kinda close time. No one should be in any situation without bein’ able to clearly say what they want. If they’re too out of it to think straight, it’s a big ol’ NO.
Now, when it comes to young folks, well, they gotta understand this too. Schools and parents oughta talk ‘bout consent with ‘em, so they grow up knowin’ what’s okay and what’s not. Just like teachin’ ‘em respectin’ other folks’ things, respectin’ their bodies too.
Last thing to remember, consent is about both folks havin’ power over their own choices. Ain’t nobody got a right to push or pressure. So, when two folks both give that happy “yes,” it’s a good thing. But if there’s ever any doubt, then best to stop and check.
So to sum it all up, sexual consent is real simple if ya think about it like this:
- Both gotta want it, and both gotta say so.
- Each time’s a new “yes” – ya don’t carry over a “yes” from before.
- No tricks or pressure; both gotta be honest with each other.
- If a person’s too out of it, there ain’t no consent, end of story.
Just remember, this consent stuff is all about respect. It’s showin’ you care about the other person and makin’ sure everybody’s comfortable. And, most importantly, it keeps folks safe and outta trouble. So don’t go forgettin’ it, and make sure everyone’s on the same page. That’s how we keep things decent, alright?
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