Okay, so you wanna know about attracting a Virgo man? Lemme tell you what I went through. It wasn’t exactly a textbook operation, more like fumbling around in the dark, but hey, I learned stuff.
First off, I met this guy. Didn’t know he was a Virgo right away, just noticed he was kinda… particular. Quiet, observant, seemed to have his stuff together. Found out later, yeah, textbook Virgo. My first thought wasn’t about astrology, honestly. It was just, “Okay, this guy is different from the loud, messy types I usually end up talking to.”
My First Attempts – Mostly Guesswork
So, I started paying attention. Noticed little things. How he organized his desk, how he spoke precisely. I figured, okay, maybe chaos isn’t his thing. So, what did I do? I tried cleaning up my act. Literally. Kept my own space tidier when I knew he might be around. Sounds silly, but I was just trying stuff.
Then I thought about conversation. He wasn’t big on random, pointless chatter. I noticed he’d engage more when we talked about something practical or something that needed figuring out. So, I cut down on the fluff. I started asking his opinion on things, like fixing something or planning a small project. Focused on sensible talk.
- I stopped just rambling about my day.
- I asked specific questions about things I knew interested him.
- I tried showing I was listening by remembering details he mentioned.
Being Consistent – This Seemed Important
Another thing I picked up on was his appreciation for reliability. He seemed stressed out by flaky people. So, I made it a point to be dependable. If I said I’d do something, I did it. If we planned to meet, I was always on time. Like, always. Even a few minutes early. I wanted to show I wasn’t going to add chaos to his life.
Honestly, it felt a bit like walking on eggshells sometimes. He could be critical, not in a mean way, but just… pointing out flaws or better ways to do things. My first reaction was to get defensive. But then I tried to just listen. Sometimes he had a point. Sometimes I just let it slide. Showing I could handle feedback without melting down seemed to score points, or at least, it didn’t scare him off.
Did It Work? Well…
So, after all that effort – the tidying, the practical talk, the punctuality, trying not to be a mess – did I “attract” him? We definitely got closer. We started spending more time together, had some really good conversations. There was a connection there, for sure. It wasn’t some big Hollywood romance moment, more like a slow burn, building trust.
Looking back, I think it wasn’t about pretending to be someone I wasn’t. It was more about highlighting parts of myself that aligned with what he seemed to value – reliability, thoughtfulness, a bit of order. And maybe tidying up my desk wasn’t such a bad habit to pick up anyway. It was a process, definitely. Less about a magic formula for “attracting a Virgo” and more about paying attention to an individual and showing up as a decent, reliable human being. That’s my experience, anyway. Take it for what it’s worth.
