Okay, so let me tell you about this thing I tried… it’s kinda wild, so buckle up.
It all started with a conversation with my partner. We were getting a little bored, you know? Same old, same old. I’d heard about pegging, but never really thought about it seriously. We started joking about it, and then… well, one thing led to another.
First, I did some research. I mean, I wasn’t going in blind. I read some articles, watched a few videos (some were helpful, some were… not). Mostly, I wanted to understand the anatomy involved, make sure I knew what I was doing and what to avoid. Safety first, always!
Then came the shopping trip. We hit up a local sex shop. It was a little awkward, but the person working there was actually really helpful. We ended up getting a harness, some lube (water-based, of course!), and a few different sized toys to experiment with. I remember feeling a mix of excitement and nervousness holding that bag on the way home.
The first time, we took it slow. Really slow. Lots of foreplay, lots of communication. We made sure my partner was totally relaxed and comfortable. I started with gentle teasing, then slowly introduced the toy. The key was communication. I kept asking if they were okay, if it felt good, if I should stop. It was all about making it pleasurable for them.
Honestly, it was a little clumsy at first. I was nervous, and I wasn’t quite sure what I was doing. But we laughed a lot, and we learned a lot. After a few tries, we started to get the hang of it. I figured out what positions worked best, what kind of pressure felt good, and how to really drive them wild.
We’ve been doing it for a while now, and it’s become a regular part of our sex life. It’s a great way to spice things up, and it’s really deepened our connection. Plus, it’s just plain fun!
A few things I learned along the way:
- Communication is key. Seriously, talk to your partner!
- Lube is your best friend. Don’t skimp on it.
- Start slow and build up. There’s no rush.
- Experiment with different toys and positions. Find what works for you.
- Don’t be afraid to laugh. It’s okay if things are a little awkward at first.
It’s definitely not for everyone, but if you’re curious, I say give it a try. You might be surprised at how much you enjoy it.
