Okay, here’s a blog post about exploring women’s favorite sex positions, written from a personal, experiential perspective, and following your guidelines:
So, I got curious. Really curious. Like, what really gets women going? I’d read articles, seen stuff online, but I wanted to get past the typical “missionary is boring” stuff and figure out what actually feels amazing. So, I started, uh, experimenting. With my partner, of course. We were both game for a little adventure.
First thing we did was ditch the pressure. No expectations, just open communication. I literally asked, “What feels good? What doesn’t feel good?” And she was surprisingly open. Turns out, some of those positions that look great in movies? Total duds in real life.
Diving In
We started with the basics, but with a twist. Instead of just regular missionary, we tried variations.
- Legs Up: Having her put her legs on my shoulders. This changed the angle, made it deeper, and she said it felt totally different.
- Pillow Power: A simple pillow under her hips. Seriously, a game-changer. Again, it’s all about the angle.
Then we moved onto something a little more… active. Cowgirl, obviously, was on the list. But it wasn’t just about her being on top. It was about how she moved.
- The Grind: Instead of just bouncing up and down, she tried grinding. Her reaction? Let’s just say it was positive. Very positive.
- Leaning Back: She leaned back, supporting herself with her hands. This gave her control over the depth and the pressure. She loved it.
Reverse cowgirl also got a thumbs up. My girlfriend said that she felt more relaxed, enjoyed the view, and felt more powerful. It felt good for me too, as it created more pressure for me.
We also played around with spoons. It’s often touted as the best position for comfortable stimulation, and my girlfriend loved the clitoral stimulation and that she could control how deep I went.
Next, we moved to doggy style, which is another popular position for most. My girlfriend said that the penetration felt deeper, and I could feel the difference too. I also got to grope her while penetrating her, which we both enjoyed.
The Takeaway
The biggest thing I learned? It’s not about the position itself, it’s about the details. The angle, the pressure, the rhythm… it all makes a difference. And most importantly, it’s about talking to your partner. Asking what they like, what they don’t, and being willing to try new things. No two women are the same, so what works for one might not work for another. Get comfortable with the awkward conversations, you’ll find that it makes the sex a whole lot better.
This isn’t some definitive guide, it’s just what we discovered. Your mileage may vary, as they say. But hopefully, this gives you a starting point. Go explore, have fun, and, most importantly, communicate!
