So, my wife mentioned she’s kinda curious about a 3sum. Yeah, you heard that right. It caught me off guard at first, but hey, I’m not one to shy away from new experiences, as long as everyone’s on board and feeling good about it.
First off, we sat down and talked. And I mean, really talked. Not just about the what, but the why, the how, and the what-ifs. It was important to lay it all out there. We talked about what we’re comfortable with and what we’re not. Boundaries are key, folks. You gotta know where your lines are and make sure everyone respects them.
- We discussed our feelings a lot. Jealousy, excitement, fear – it all came up. And that’s okay. It’s normal to feel a whole mix of things when you’re diving into something like this.
- We also talked about who this third person would be. A friend? A stranger? Someone we both know? Each option has its own set of pros and cons, and we had to weigh them carefully.
After a few of these chats, we started to get a clearer picture of what we wanted. But it wasn’t just about the act itself. We realized it was also about deepening our connection, exploring our intimacy in a new way. It’s like adding a new ingredient to your favorite dish – it could totally enhance the flavor, or it could mess it up if you’re not careful.
We decided to do some research, you know, read up on other people’s experiences, get some advice from those who’ve been there. The internet’s a wild place, but it does have some useful stuff if you know where to look. We found some forums, a few articles, and even a couple of videos that were pretty enlightening.
Then came the tricky part – finding the right third. We started by creating a profile on a couple of apps, just to see what’s out there. It’s a bit like online dating, but with an extra layer of complexity. You’re not just looking for someone who’s attractive and interesting, but also someone who vibes well with both of you and understands the dynamics of a 3sum.
We swiped, we chatted, and we even met up with a few people for coffee, just to get a feel for them in person. It was a bit awkward at times, but also kinda exciting. It’s like casting for a role in a play, except the play is your actual sex life.
Finally, we found someone who seemed like a good match. We all met up a few more times, just to make sure we were all on the same page. We talked about our expectations, our boundaries, and what we were hoping to get out of the experience. It was a bit like a business meeting, but with more wine and less PowerPoint.
And then, we did it. We set a date, bought some new toys, and made sure our place was looking extra inviting. The night itself was… well, it was something else. It was intense, it was exciting, and it was definitely a learning experience.
Post-3sum Reflection
Afterward, we spent a lot of time talking about how we felt. There were moments of awkwardness, moments of pure bliss, and everything in between. We learned a lot about ourselves and each other that night. It wasn’t just about the sex, it was about the trust, the communication, and the shared experience.
Would we do it again? Maybe. It’s not something we’re rushing into, but it’s definitely an option on the table. The important thing is that we did it together, we did it on our terms, and we came out of it feeling closer and more connected than ever before.
