Alright, so the other day, I got this idea stuck in my head about stereotypes in songs. You know, you listen to music all the time, but how often do you really pay attention to the messages, especially the sneaky stereotypes tucked away in the lyrics? I figured I’d spend some time actually digging into this myself, just to see what I’d find in the music I listen to or have heard over the years.

So, I started pretty simply. First, I just went through my own music library – stuff I listen to regularly. I put on some tracks, but this time, I tried to listen with a different ear. Not just enjoying the beat, but actually focusing on the words and the stories being told. I grabbed a notepad, old school style, just to jot down lines or themes that jumped out at me.
After going through my usual stuff, I decided to branch out. I thought, okay, maybe it’s different across genres or eras. So I spent some time listening to older songs, stuff from decades ago, and then switched to some popular hits from today. I even dipped into genres I don’t normally listen to much. It wasn’t super scientific, you know, just me clicking around on streaming services and searching online for specific types of songs or artists sometimes.
I also found myself using online lyric sites quite a bit. Sometimes a line would go by fast, or I wasn’t sure if I heard it right. So I’d pause the track, look up the lyrics, and read them through. That actually helped a lot to confirm if a certain phrase really meant what I thought it might mean in terms of stereotypes.
What I Started Noticing
It didn’t take long to start seeing patterns. It was kinda interesting, actually, noticing things I’d probably sung along to a million times without ever really thinking about the underlying message. It wasn’t always blatant, sometimes it was more subtle.
Here’s a rough list of the kinds of things I bumped into during my listening sessions:

- Gender roles: This one came up a lot. You know, lyrics about what men are supposed to be like – tough, unemotional, always chasing women, focused on money or power. And for women, it was often about being emotional, dependent, focused on looks, or needing a man.
- Nationality/Race: Found some tracks that played on clichés about people from certain countries or belonging to certain racial groups. Sometimes it was meant to be funny, I guess, but it still leaned on pretty old, worn-out ideas.
- Occupations/Classes: There were songs that painted certain jobs or lifestyles in a very specific, often stereotypical light. Like, all rich people are like this, or all country folks are like that.
- Age: Even found a few examples related to age – ideas about how young people behave versus older people, often simplifying complex groups.
The whole process was quite eye-opening, honestly. Just dedicating some time to actively listen for these things, instead of passively hearing them, made a huge difference. It wasn’t about judging the music necessarily, more about practicing that critical listening skill. I found quite a few examples just by paying closer attention to the songs floating around us every day. It’s definitely changed how I listen to lyrics now, I pay a bit more attention to what’s actually being said beneath the melody.