This here bidding in relationships, it’s like when you’re at the market, you know? You see something you like, you gotta let the seller know you’re interested. Same thing with your man or your woman. You gotta show ’em you care, you gotta bid for their attention, their love.
Now, I ain’t no fancy expert, but I’ve been around the block a few times. I seen things. And I tell ya, this bidding thing, it’s important. It’s like planting seeds. You want a good crop? You gotta water it, tend to it. Same with love. You want it to grow? You gotta put in the work.
What’s bidding, you ask? Well, it’s the little things. It’s like when your man comes home tired from workin’ all day. You could just sit there, watchin’ your stories on the TV. Or, you could get up, get him a drink, ask him about his day. That’s a bid. You’re sayin’, “Hey, I see you. I care about you.”
- It could be a touch, a pat on the back.
- It could be a smile, a wink across the room.
- It could be a chore, like takin’ out the trash without being asked.
- It could be words, “You look nice today,” or “I appreciate you.”
These little things, they add up. They’re like pennies in a jar. Seem like nothin’ much at first, but before you know it, you got a whole lot of somethin’. That’s how you build a strong relationship, a strong marriage. Brick by brick, bid by bid.
And it ain’t just about what you do, it’s about how you do it. You gotta be genuine, you know? Like when you’re pickin’ out the best tomatoes at the market. You don’t just grab any old one. You look it over, feel it, make sure it’s good. Same with your bids. They gotta come from the heart. Your partner, they can tell when you’re fakin’ it. They can smell a bad apple from a mile away.
Now, sometimes your bids ain’t gonna land. Sometimes your partner, they’re gonna be busy, or tired, or just not in the mood. That’s okay. Don’t get discouraged. It’s like fishin’. Sometimes you cast your line and you don’t get a bite. You just gotta keep tryin’. Keep castin’. Eventually, somethin’ will bite.
Why is bidding important in relationships? Because it shows you care. It’s like sayin’, “I choose you. Every day, I choose you.” And who don’t want to be chosen? Who don’t want to feel loved, appreciated? We all do. That’s just human nature.
And it ain’t just about gettin’ love, it’s about givin’ it too. It’s a two-way street, this relationship thing. You gotta give to get. It’s like a garden. You want pretty flowers? You gotta plant the seeds, water ’em, give ’em sunshine. You gotta put in the work.
Some folks, they think love is just a feelin’. Like a warm fuzzy in your belly. And sure, that’s part of it. But love, real love, it’s more than that. It’s action. It’s choices. It’s them little bids you make every day. Those little “I love you’s” without sayin’ the words.
- Making his coffee just the way he likes.
- Ironing his shirt for that big meeting.
- Listening to her talk, even when you don’t understand half of it.
- Holding her hand when she’s scared.
This bidding, it ain’t rocket science. It ain’t hard. But it takes effort. It takes being mindful. It takes payin’ attention. And in this busy world, that’s the most valuable thing you can give someone. Your attention, your time.
You see them young folks today, always on their phones, always distracted. They don’t know how to connect, how to really see each other. They’re missin’ out on somethin’ special. Somethin’ real. You gotta look up from your phone, look into your partner’s eyes, and make a bid. Let ’em know you’re there. Let ’em know you care. That is the key point about bidding in relationships.
And it’s not just for romantic relationships, you know? It’s for all kinds of relationships. Your kids, your friends, your family. Everybody wants to feel seen, heard, appreciated. A little bid can go a long way. It’s like a kind word, a pat on the back. It can make someone’s day. It can make ’em feel like they matter.
So, go on, make a bid today. Make a few. See what happens. You might be surprised at the good things that come your way. It’s like plantin’ seeds of kindness. You never know what beautiful things might grow. And, just be yourself, be genuine. That’s what folks appreciate the most. That’s what makes a relationship strong. That’s what makes it last. Don’t be a stranger to those you care about, make a bid. Let them know that you are there and you care.
It’s the little things that matter in this here life. That’s all. Keep bidding in your relationships, you will find your life will be different.
