Alright, so I kept hearing bits and pieces about this show, ‘Sex/Life’ on Netflix. Mostly chatter online, you know, people talking about how wild some scenes were. Curiosity got the better of me, figured I’d check it out myself, see if it was just hype.

So, one evening, settled down, booted up Netflix. Found the show pretty easily. Started watching the first episode. Honestly? It kinda dragged a bit at first. Typical setup, woman feeling nostalgic about her past life. I was half-watching, half-scrolling through stuff on my phone.
Getting to ‘Those’ Scenes
Then you get to the parts people were actually talking about. There were definitely a few moments, especially involving the character Brad, that were… well, pretty explicit for a mainstream show. More than I expected, frankly.
- The Shower Scene: Yeah, that one. Episode three, I think? It definitely made me pause. It was surprisingly… direct. Less suggestion, more just showing it. Felt a bit like they were intentionally trying to create buzz.
- Other Encounters: There were other steamy moments scattered through the season. Some felt a bit more connected to the story, others felt kinda thrown in.
My process was basically just watching it unfold. Didn’t fast-forward, didn’t rewind much after that initial surprise. Just took it in as part of the show. Tried to figure out if these scenes actually served the characters or the plot, or if they were just there for shock value.
My Take After Watching
Finished the season eventually. My main thought? It felt very calculated. Like the creators knew exactly which buttons to push to get people talking. The sex scenes, especially the really graphic ones, seemed designed for exactly that purpose – generate headlines, get clicks, make the show trend.
Did it work? Well, yeah, people definitely talked about it. Including me, now, writing this down.

But did it make the show better? Not really, in my opinion. Sometimes it felt like it took away from the actual story they were trying to tell about choices, marriage, and desire. It became more about the spectacle than the substance.
So, yeah. I watched it. Saw the scenes. Understood the hype. But ultimately, it just felt like a pretty standard drama trying way too hard to be provocative using sex. Just my two cents from actually sitting through it.