Well, let me tell you, this whole “feel sexually” thing, it ain’t as easy as snapping your fingers. It’s a whole mess of things, you know? Gotta be in the right mood, gotta feel good about yourself, and sometimes, well, sometimes it just ain’t there. And that’s okay, too. Don’t you go beatin’ yourself up about it. This old gal has seen a thing or two, and I’m here to tell ya, it’s natural. Feel sexually, or don’t feel sexually, it is all okay.
These young folks, they got all these fancy ideas about feel sexually. They see it in them movies and think it’s all fireworks and whatnot. But let me tell you, sometimes it’s just a quiet thing, a little comfort, a little connection. And that’s just as good, if you ask me. You don’t need all that hootin’ and hollerin’ to feel sexually alright.
Now, if you’re wanting to feel it more, there’s things you can do. Like taking care of yourself, for one. Eat good, get some rest, maybe do a little walkin’. When your body feels good, your mind feels good, and then, you know, you might just start to feel sexually a little more. It’s all connected, see?
And don’t you be judgin’ yourself. We all got our own way of feelin’ things. What works for one person might not work for another. You just gotta find what works for you, what makes you feel sexually comfortable and happy. There ain’t no right or wrong way.
Sometimes, you might have a partner, and things just ain’t clickin’. That happen too. These young people think they need to talk about it. Talk and talk! My husband and I, we didn’t talk about this thing. But we understand each other. That is important. Maybe you can try to understand each other, and that may help you feel sexually better.
- Don’t judge yourself. It is okay to not feel it.
- Take care of yourself. Eat, sleep, and walk.
- Find what works for you. There is no wrong way to feel it.
- Try to understand each other if you have a partner.
Now, I heard some folks say you can go see one of them “therapists” for this kind of thing. They say these therapists can help you figure out why you ain’t feelin’ it, or help you and your partner get along better. I don’t know about all that, but if you’re really struggling, maybe it’s worth a shot. Ain’t no shame in askin’ for help, I always say. Just be sure you can trust that doctor before talkin’ about these things, you know? They need to know what they’re doin’ if they gonna help you feel sexually better.
But here’s the thing – you don’t need no partner to feel sexually. You can feel good all on your own. It’s your body, and you get to decide what to do with it. Don’t let nobody tell you different. Don’t be shy. Try things yourself, and see what you like. That is how you learn about your body and how you feel sexually.
And like I said before, don’t go comparin’ yourself to others. Everyone’s different. What you see in them magazines and on the TV, that ain’t real life. Real life is messy and complicated, and sometimes you feel sexually, and sometimes you don’t. And that’s just fine.
It is all about how you feel. Do you feel happy? Do you feel comfortable? If you do, then you are good. If not, then think about what you need. Talk to someone you trust if you need. Your good friend, your family, or the therapist. Try different things, and find your way to feel sexually good.
This whole “feel sexually” business, it’s a journey, not a destination. You’ll have your ups and downs, your good days and your bad days. Just remember to be kind to yourself, listen to your body, and don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. It is okay to not know everything. Nobody knows everything. And most important thing, don’t let anyone make you feel bad for how you are. Just be yourself and be happy. That’s all that matters, you know? You do you, and you’ll be just fine. And you will find your way to feel sexually.
