Okay, so, let’s talk about what guys actually like in bed. It’s not rocket science, but sometimes it feels like it, right?

First off, I started by, you know, just asking. Sounds simple, but you’d be surprised. I got a bunch of different answers, but there were some common threads. So, I did what any normal person would do – I made a list.
Then, I started to test it out. I know, sounds a bit clinical, but hear me out. For example, I read somewhere that a lot of guys like it when you use your hands more. So, during our next, uh, “session”, I tried to be more, how do you say, hands-on. And guess what? He loved it! I mean, he really, really loved it. We did it several times that night.
- Use your hands.
- Be more hands-on.
Next, I tried to, uh, “finger” him. I asked him first, of course, and made sure everything was, you know, clean. And bam! Another win. He was into it. He told me that he likes it but was too proud to say it. It felt so good to make him feel that way.
Then there was this thing about, like, emotional connection. I read that guys crave that, even if they don’t say it. So, I started being more, I don’t know, affectionate? Like, more cuddling, more sweet talk, more holding hands, you know? It sounds cheesy, but it worked. He seemed to really appreciate it. I found that we got more intimate in general.
- Be more affectionate.
- More cuddling and sweet talk.
- Hold hands.
Oh, and smooth skin! I mean, duh, right? But it’s true. I started paying more attention to that, and he definitely noticed. He told me he liked the smooth skin of my legs.

- Pay more attention to smooth skin.
And you know what else? I tried to be more adventurous, as I found some guys like that. I suggested trying new things, new positions, and he was all for it. It was actually really fun, and it definitely spiced things up between us.
Also, I learned to pay more attention to his non-verbal cues. Like, I would notice when he would, you know, react a certain way to something I did, and I would do more of that. It’s like, you gotta pay attention to the little things, you know?
Key takeaways
So, yeah, that’s pretty much it. It was a lot of trial and error, and a lot of, well, fun. And the best part? It made our intimate life so much better. It’s not just about what you do, but also about how you connect, how you communicate, and how you pay attention to each other. So if you’re wondering what your guy likes, just try some of these things. And don’t be afraid to experiment. You might be surprised at what you discover.