Okay, so, I was trying to get my crush’s attention the other day, and I thought I’d share what I did and what happened. It was kind of a wild ride, but here’s the story.
First off, I started with a little online search. I typed my crush’s name into Google, just to see what would pop up. Then I switched to Google Images, hoping to see some photos of them. I mean, who doesn’t do a little light internet searching on their crush, right?
Then I remembered this article about psychological tricks to get someone’s attention. It was some relationship blog. One of the tips was to share personal stories, so I thought, “Why not?” I decided to try that out during our next conversation. I waited until we were talking about our favorite memories, then I jumped in with a story from my childhood. It was a bit embarrassing, but it was real, and I noticed they were actually listening.
- I also tried using their name more often when talking to them. Sounds simple, but it does make the conversation feel more personal.
- Another thing I did was try to be more open and vulnerable. I talked about some challenges I was facing, hoping it would show a different side of me.
- When they mentioned having a rough day, I sent a supportive text. Just a little something to show I was thinking about them.
I also remembered reading somewhere about being kind and affectionate. So, I made an effort to be extra nice to them. When they were venting about something, I offered a comforting shoulder rub, you know, just to be a good friend and maybe a little more.
Did It Work?
Well, it’s hard to say for sure. I mean, we’re talking more, and they seem to be opening up to me a bit more too. I think these little things are making a difference. It’s not like a movie where everything changes overnight, but it feels like we’re building something.
So, yeah, that’s my story about trying to get my crush’s attention. It’s been a mix of internet tips and just trying to be a better version of myself. I guess the main takeaway is to just be genuine and put yourself out there. It’s scary, but it might just be worth it.
