Alright, so let’s talk about this whole squirting thing. For ages, I was pretty sure it was just something you saw in, you know, those movies, or maybe it was like a superpower only a few people had. Sounded kinda out there, to be honest. I spent a good while just scratching my head, wondering if it was even real for regular folks like me.
So, I started lookin’ into it, poked around online, read a bunch of stuff. And man, the amount of weird advice out there is crazy. It was all like, “Press here! Angle this way! Do a secret handshake!” I tried some of that, felt like I was trying to crack a safe or something. Nothin’ but frustration, mostly. Honestly, it felt more like a chore than anything else. I was just tensing up, tryin’ so hard to follow these so-called instructions, and it just wasn’t clicking. Felt pretty mechanical, and definitely not fun.
Then I had a bit of a shift in how I was approachin’ it. I figured, maybe it’s not about some secret button or a rigid set of rules. Our bodies are all different, right? So, I decided to just kinda… explore. On my own terms. No pressure, no specific goal except to just pay attention to what felt good, what felt interesting. I started by really focusing on getting super relaxed. Sounds simple, but for me, that was a huge game changer. When you’re stressed or trying too hard, your body just clams up.
I spent a lot of time just, well, getting familiar with myself. It wasn’t about one specific spot right away. It was more about understanding the whole area, you know? I played around with different kinds of touch, different pressures, different rhythms. Some days, not much would happen. Other days, I’d feel a new sensation, something I hadn’t noticed before. It was a lot of trial and error, just patiently learnin’ my own body’s responses. Consistency was key for me, not giving up after one or two tries that didn’t “work.”
For me, internal stimulation was definitely part of the puzzle. I had to experiment with finding the right angle and the right kind of consistent, building pressure. It wasn’t about jabbing away; it was more like a steady, focused build-up. And staying relaxed through it all, even when things started to feel intense. I also noticed that being really turned on, like, mentally into it, made a massive difference. It’s not just a physical thing, your head’s gotta be in the game too.
And then, one day, it just… happened. Wasn’t a giant movie-style explosion or anything dramatic like that, at least not for me at first. It was more like a definite release, a gush that was different from just being wet. And the feeling? Pretty incredible, not gonna lie. But more than the squirt itself, it was the feeling of, “Hey, I figured this out! My body can do this cool thing!” It felt empowering, like I’d unlocked a new level of understanding myself.
So, if you’re on this journey, tryin’ to figure it out, my main piece of advice is just to be patient with yourself. Seriously. Don’t get bogged down by what everyone else says is “supposed” to happen. Your body is your own. It takes time, it takes exploration, and it definitely takes a lot of relaxation. Forget the pressure and just focus on what feels good to you. The process of discovering what your body likes can be pretty amazing all on its own, even before you get to any specific “goal.” It’s your adventure, so enjoy the ride, you know?
