Okay, so a lot of people have been asking me about deep throating, and I get it, it’s not exactly something you can just jump into. I’ve been there, trust me. It takes some practice and the right mindset. Let me walk you through what I did and what worked for me.
Getting Started
First off, you gotta relax. If you’re tense, your throat is gonna tense up too, and that’s a one-way ticket to Gag City. I started by just trying to get used to the feeling of something in my mouth, something that wasn’t food.
- Used my fingers. Yeah, sounds weird, but it’s a good starting point.
- Tried to touch the back of my tongue, then further back, little by little.
- Focused on my breathing. In through the nose, out through the mouth.
Working Through the Gag Reflex
The gag reflex is the real enemy here. It’s there for a good reason, to stop you from choking, but it’s a pain when you’re trying to deep throat. Here’s what I did to train mine to chill out:
- Started with something smaller than what I was aiming for. No need to go all in right away.
- Practiced every day, even if it was just for a few minutes. Consistency is key, people!
- Pushed myself a little further each time. Not too much, just enough to feel a slight discomfort, then pulled back.
- Distracted myself. Watching something or listening to music can really help take your mind off what your throat is doing.
The Real Deal
When I finally felt ready to try it for real, I made sure to set the mood. You don’t want any surprises or sudden movements.
- Communicated with my partner. Letting them know what I was comfortable with and what I was working on.
- Started slow. No need to rush. Getting the hang of it takes time.
- Used lube. Seriously, it makes everything so much smoother.
- Kept breathing. It’s easy to forget when you’re focused on something else.
Keeping at It
Even after you get it, it’s something you gotta keep working on. Your body changes, and what worked one day might not work the next. So I keep practicing, keep experimenting with different techniques, and keep communicating with my partner.
That’s my story. It wasn’t easy, but it was definitely worth it. Just remember to take it slow, listen to your body, and have fun with it. You got this!
