Okay, so I wanted to spice things up a bit, you know? Things can get kinda routine. I remembered seeing stuff online about ‘sexual game questions’ and thought, why not give it a try? Seemed like a way to maybe talk about stuff we don’t usually bring up.
Getting Started
First, I actually had to find some questions. Spent a bit of time just browsing around, looking for lists or ideas. Some were way too out there, honestly, not really our style. Others felt a bit… clinical? Like an interview. The goal was fun and connection, not an interrogation.
So, I decided to kinda curate my own little list. I picked a few that seemed interesting, mixing some lighter ones with some that felt a bit deeper, maybe touching on fantasies or boundaries, but in a gentle way. I wrote maybe ten or fifteen down on separate slips of paper.
The Actual “Game”
Then came the tricky part: bringing it up. Didn’t want it to feel forced or weird. I waited for a relaxed evening, just chilling together. I just sort of casually mentioned I found this idea online and thought it might be fun or interesting to try.
We decided to just put the folded papers in a bowl and take turns drawing one and answering. No pressure to answer if something felt too uncomfortable, that was important.
- We grabbed some drinks.
- Put on some music, kept it low-key.
- Sat somewhere comfortable, facing each other.
Honestly? It was a little awkward at first. The first question drawn felt a bit silly, and we both kinda laughed. But then, as we went on, it got easier. Some questions led to really interesting little conversations that branched off. We learned a few new things about each other, little preferences or thoughts we hadn’t shared before.
What I Took Away
It wasn’t really about the specific questions in the end. It was more about the act of asking and listening. Making that space to talk about intimate stuff without it being high-stakes or attached to a specific moment. Some answers were surprising, some were reassuring. Some just made us laugh.
The whole process felt like a reminder that communication about this stuff doesn’t have to be a Big Serious Talk all the time. It can be playful. We didn’t even get through all the papers I wrote down. We just stopped when it felt natural.
Definitely something I’d consider doing again, maybe mixing up the questions or trying a different way. It wasn’t mind-blowing, but it was a nice, simple way to connect and open up a bit more. Just gotta find the right vibe and not take it too seriously.
