Today, I wanna talk about something a bit more personal – vagina sex versus anal sex.
So, let’s dive right in. I’ve always been a curious person, especially when it comes to my own body and pleasure. I started out with the basics, you know, the usual vaginal sex. My first time was clumsy as hell. We prepared and laid down on the bed, I could not even look straight into his eyes. I was totally green and could only listen to what he told me to do. It was okay, a bit awkward, but it got better with time. I found that when I was really into it, like super turned on, it felt amazing. The feeling of being filled up, the rhythm, the connection – it’s all pretty fantastic.
But then, I started hearing about anal sex. People talked about it like it was this taboo, forbidden pleasure. Some said it was painful, others said it was incredible. I got curious. I did some reading, talked to a few friends who were into it, and decided to give it a try.
- First Attempt: I’ll be honest, the first time was not great. We tried, my partner and I. I was nervous, he was trying to be gentle. We started slowly and tried to insert his penis into my anus. But it just felt uncomfortable, kind of painful. We stopped pretty quickly. I felt a bit disappointed, but also relieved. I thought, “Maybe it’s just not for me.”
- Second Attempt: A few months later, with a different partner, we decided to try again. This time, I was more prepared. We used a lot of lube, took things really slow. I tried to relax as much as possible. He slid in gently, bit by bit. It still felt weird, a bit uncomfortable, but not as painful as the first time. We went slow, stopped when I needed to. I focused on my breathing and tried to communicate my feeling to him. After he took his penis out, I felt a little strange. Not painful, but very… different.
- Continued Exploration: After that, I started experimenting more. I found that using toys designed for anal play was a good way to ease into it. Small ones at first, then gradually bigger. I learned to control my muscles down there, to relax and tense them at will. I tried some sex positions that were good for anal penetration. I put my leg on his shoulder and let him in from behind. This position made me feel so good, and I think it’s my favorite now. It took time, but eventually, I started to feel some pleasure from it. It’s a different kind of pleasure than vaginal sex. It’s more intense, more focused in one spot. When I was with my partner, he held me tight, and we moved together slowly. It’s like a deep pressure that builds and builds. I also found that when he came inside me in that position, I felt full and satisfied. And the sound of his body against mine, it made me feel hot.
Now, I wouldn’t say I prefer one over the other. It really depends on my mood, who I’m with, and what we’re feeling like. Sometimes I’m all about that vaginal fullness and the way it makes me feel connected to my partner. Other times, I want that intense, focused anal pleasure.
So, yeah, that’s my experience with vagina sex versus anal sex. It’s been a journey of exploration, learning, and figuring out what works for me. And honestly, it’s been pretty damn fun.
